Help ... Sex Issue?

Yes you are a gay, rush to a psychiatrist..

If you didn't enjoy it, why did you do it again? lol. Maybe you did enjoy it, but are afraid to admit it. Some people think that having sex w/someone of the same gender doesn't make you gay, but instead how you feel towards members of the same gender (ie, if you have an actual attraction and desire to be with them). IMO, if you are having sex w/someone of the same gender as you, as a choice, you just might be gay. You should take some time and do a little soul searching. Good luck.

Okay, Let me get this straight. You didn't like it but went back for more. I like you. I did the same thing, the first time. The deciding factor is are you going to go back for more again. If so, then you're probably gay. If not, then just chalk it up to experimentation. Me personally, I keep going back for more, and more, etc.

Kudos to all who understand what he's saying. I can't truly say that I'm following you with all of the typos and the wrong tenses in your writing, but if you had sex with a guy (friend or not) more than once in one day and experienced orgasm, I'd say you're gay or, at the very least, bisexual.

of coarse you are gay... now just enjoy it...

doubts make you gay and the facts you told make you even more gay... you say you didn't like it just to try to fool yourself, but actually you wanted it and you liked it otherwise you wouldn't have done it a second time...

man... being gay is not the end of the world and it's not easy to deal with either... just follow your heart and you'll find all the answers you need...

just try your best not to fall in love with a straight guy... he'll only cause you pain... but this friend you mentioned is not straight at all, if he had sex with you and if he did it twice... humm... he's so gay... he just doesn't admit it...

Feh on labels. If you insist on one, choose bi.

If you didn't enjoy it I suggest you be choosier about partners in the future. You mentioned pain. Again, you need a better partner and probably some lubricant.

just because u didnt like the sex u had with him doesnt mean ur not gay or bi........it just means u had a bad sexual experience with that person. but it all boils down to if ur attracted to men or women or both.......if so then it answers itself. my first time was with a guy.....and i hated it but im still attracted to men......so same with u......its all about what attracts u

You were just questioning. It's okay you do need to decide though, and do it while you are young and not married. Both teams are good, just pick one and it'll be fine.

If you had any sexual feelings toward our male friend...it could mean your gay..it could also mean you just tried something out...only you know how deep those feelings are..By the way,..did you just kiss him or did you hide the salami?just curious...

okay i felt bad the first time i did it too!!!!its because its different and something new!!!!im not saying your gay but i think you might be bi!!

dont listen to the negative comments just be yourself you dont have to be ashamed of it!!!!

its totally kool to be whatever you are as long as you stay yourself. u did it wif a guy.... so what? maby it was just a tester thing... u know try somthing new...