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Can a b lowjob consummate a marriage?

I'm not trying to be retarded; i would really like to know.

Update:

no, clowmy, i'm neither young nor stupid. but good input. is this something everyone is supposed to know?

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  • OC
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    No. Only the sexual acts that would normally lead to pregnancy consummate a marriage. Blow jobs do not lead to pregnancy; therefore they can not consummate a marriage.

    Catholic Canon Law defines (canon 1061 §1) that a marriage has been consummated when the "spouses have performed between themselves in a human fashion a conjugal act which is suitable in itself for the procreation of offspring, to which marriage is ordered by its nature and by which the spouses become one flesh." Some theologians, such as Fr. John A. Hardon, have stated that contraceptive intercourse does not consummate a marriage.

  • Sugar
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Nope. Consumating means 2 parties agree, 2 parties exchange vows, then 2 parties "break open" the great divide... there ain't no "divide" in the mouth.. the idea originated in the middle ages with the breaking of the hymen. (virginity) Nowadays , consumation speaks to intercourse, because there are no guarantees regarding hymens (tampons, pre-marital sex, you name it and they can break)

    There was an old custom where the man used to show off the bloodied sheet AFTER sex as proof that the woman was a virgin (which also could nullify the marriage if she WASN'T!!) .. bleeding of course is no sign of virginity, which is a whole other topic, but the need to prove the highest level of physical intimacy is still about "taking posession" of each other. Hence the cliche.. "Take me baby, take me..." lol....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hi Lb, You are kidding aren't you??? If you have to ask a question like this you are a little to young. You have to have sexual intercourse to consummate marriage. Only that will consummate a marriage. LOL A Friend.

    Clowmy

  • 1 decade ago

    No, oral sex doesn't consummate a marriage. In order to consummate the marriage, actual intercourse has to happen.

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  • 1 decade ago

    No, only intercourse can consummate a marriage. A blow job is just foreplay.

  • 1 decade ago

    No, but they often consummate many shopping sprees at Walmart on boyfriend's credit cards.

  • Ellen
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i know what 'consummate a marriage' means but sorry - what does 'a b lowjob' mean?

  • 1 decade ago

    just b/c you don't know what some of this sex stuff is don't make you young or retarted i am 27 and really have no clue on alot of this b/c my husband of 10 yrs is the first and only guy i was ever with and he is fine with my 'stupidity" on the subject he loves me for me not my knowledge on sex

  • 1 decade ago

    no its just an act, full intercourse consummates a marriage.

  • 1 decade ago

    Only if its in a 69.

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