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What would you do in this situation?
I've been in a really long relationship, 15 months, and its was serious. Recently we got into a very big fight and we broke up. Now breaking up with us isn't the same as many people...it happens almost every fight so we really just consider it "fighting" and not literally breaking up. But this time its different. We're both mad..but she's a lot more mad at me than i am at her, what would you do?
11 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Hi, that happens a lot in relationships and what you could do is go to her and tell her how sorry that you are. In a relationship communication is very important so if there's not a lot of that going on maybe you should talk to her about it.
I know with my man I had to work on myself so did he because the worst thing we use to do was take things out on each other and that is not something to do in a relationship, so we talk more about what goes on good or bad so that way we can support each other rather than not say anything about whats bothering us inside.
Go and apologize to her and if there is something that your feeling you should share it with her and let her know also that if there is ever anything that she needs to talk to you about that you are always there to support her no matter what.
Good luck.
- 1 decade ago
A relationship isn't a good one if you both fight all the time. I would really consider splitting up and going your separate ways.
Little arguments here and there are normal but you both need to respect each other and fighting a lot isn't a healthy relationship.
- IndiHippiLv 51 decade ago
Talk to her about it in person if she'll let you, if you really love each other it will work out. Make sure she knows that you care, and want to be with her. And you guys need to stop the "breaking up" every time you have a fight, that's not a healthy thing to do in a relationship. Be honest with her, treat her well, and love her. Hopefully it works out for you, good luck!
- 1 decade ago
Man dont worry about it. I know thats a lot easier said than done, but you have to. I'm not sure how old you are but when I was in high school I had a gf that I dated for almost two years. Everything was great, we both thought we were "in love" then she broke up w/ me 4 days after my bday. I was crushed. 3 years later, I dont care and i have moved on...Make sure its real love before you waste all of your time on it!
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- curiousLv 41 decade ago
I saw enough couples who live like this for many years. But looks like you do not enjoy constant "fighting". Your relationship already shows unhealthy patterns. I would try to talk to my partner and if it does not work, would seriously consider leaving for good. Life can be much better and who need unnecessary stress?
- 1 decade ago
Hey man, it really depends on 1, how much u love her 2, how bad u messed up, and 3, whether or not u can make things right with her. I no i get really ticked with my bf if he's a jerk. If u wanna make things better. do it. if u can't let her no that you love her. don't forget to tell her how beautiful she is or how much u love her. OK? good luck!
- 1 decade ago
If you truly love her get over it and tell her your sorry. if this behavior keeps up what makes you think it will get better...maybe she isn't the right one or you need to communicate better.
- 1 decade ago
Just give her space and let her cool off for awhile she will be fine after that.
- sweetLv 41 decade ago
GEEZ, if you two are always fighting like it sounds...hummmmm! well, you say she is a lot madder at you than you are with her...well it is your choice...you can call her in about two weeks or longer...BUT IF SHE ACTS COLD WITH YOU, i would just "let her go"....sorry!!!
- 1 decade ago
well i would send her a LOT of flowers and all of that kind of stuff and sign it SECRET ADMIRER then put meet me in one of your favorite restaurants like meet me at "oh charlies"
i have a seat reserved