he didnt want to lose me but he hurts me with his reactions i feel i'm lost and it's hard to lose him too..

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our realtionship has reached its end and i m living the worst days of my life really last thing happened between us that he travelled without telling me and what hurts me more that he travelled to a place which we have good memories together(from 2 months he knew that i m travelling to some place and he made me a surprise and i found him there too to be with me and it was really like a dream) i knew recently that he travelled to this place without telling me with his friends i really couldnt imagine him there with other girls doing what we were doing so i decided to stop calling him and to get him away of my life too..but i recieved sms from him when he is there telling me he missed me a lot i felt he sent me this message when he went there and remembered that we were there together...anyway what i want to say that i feel that we r just trying now not to lose eachother he only cares when he really feels that he is losing me and that i stopped calling or caring..

Update:

i just want u to know that when he traveeld he was with his friends boys and girls not girls only(friends from college) i was only jealous...but he is a very good person really..

Update 2:

i just want u to know that when he traveeld he was with his friends boys and girls not girls only(friends from college)not to thik he is a bad guy i was just jealous...but he is a very good person really..

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hmm... let go!

I don't think this guy deserves to have you.  Somehow he does cares for you, but is only when he feels that he is losing you.  What about other times???   

Mind you, though he sms you when he is at the place where you 2 had sweet memories, it doesn't mean that he is really missing you.  It could be that he sms you is for the sake of sending something.  Sorry to be so mean.

Know is hard, yet is always better to let go of a relationship before is too late, I mean when you found you can't live without him... but he have decided to leave you.

Take care!

ashley · Answer

I couldn't find anywhere that he is cheating on you. 
If this is not the case then just talk to him and try burying the past and moving forward in a normal way.
But if he is also cheating on you, then I would have called it off if I was in your place. 
Still try n talk to him and know his feelings for you. Then decide....

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he didnt want to lose me but he hurts me with his reactions i feel i'm lost and it's hard to lose him too..

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