I think I may be crazy....?

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I'm usually a pretty reserved person. I'm quiet, and usually more of a peace-maker in relationships. I also have a 'save the world complex". I help too many people. Here lately, I think I've lost it. I'm going through a lot of stuff, some of it self-induced, a lot of it not. I didn't realize how much resentment I've let build up. It was just that I'm loyal to my friends and have been their for them, but when I'm going through something they bail on me. I've managed to pretty much end four relationships in the last month because I felt used, whether I was right or not I don't know. I handled most of it badly, which took away from the point I was trying to make and made me look like just a crazy *****. I'm not saying what I said was wrong, but just handled badly. When do you try and repair relationships and when do you just cut your losses and move on? (cutting my losses is the plan as of now)

oneinunity · Accepted Answer

Good plan! You're far from being crazy. Life experiences, apart from just enjoying them, are a learning experience. Don't worry about it. Wisdom is within each of us, but it takes years before we act wisely. Most people never get there, but the ones that do asked themselves questions like this one. You'll be ok. :-)

cArTeR · Answer

Your gut will tell you if you need to cut your losses or move on.  Just trust your instinct.  As for you being the rock for everyone else, they should realize that you are always there for them and respect the time when you need them and they aren't there and you handle things wrong.  If you feel like you need to cut your losses, you should.  But always remember how you handled things wrongly this time so in the future when they arise, you will be strong enough to handle them differently.

rumtumm69 · Answer

Your not crazy.  You tend to find out who your real friends are when you need them the most.  Honestly the only one I depend on is myself no one is going to understand and treat you better.  I would say see if these pple who you went off on come back and talk with you and show true concern if not cut your losses.  I hope everything gets better for you soon.   What makes us crazy now will only make us stronger in the future keep your head up

Anonymous · Answer

do what you feel is right for you, you can't watch the world go round at other peoples thoughts and decisions and look over their shoulder to react to their decisions, make your own today cause you have total control over you....if you allow your friends to mock you or bring you down, then they really don't bring meaning to your life in a positive way.....people are funny nowadays so watch yourself cause people lie, provoke, complain, cheat, steal, etc etc

Anonymous · Answer

It's only when you stop questioning your sanity that you know that you have finally lost it.

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