help me please?

Wait & watch. I hope your parents are not querreling over the issue. If they are not, you must concentrate upon your priorities. I believe you are about teenaged and at your age you should not be worried about this. I wish all the best to your dad and pray that his work gets smooth...

Well I think this is an important family issue that should be discussed between you all as it involves all of you. try explaining how you feel and allow others reasons for staying or going to be heard. A vote maybe useful, but at the end of the day, if your dad is bringing the money in and his Job isn't working at your new location, going where financial security is may be the best option

Well, you need to think a bit here. Will you guys be able to live by yourself? Will your dad get another job in the same place? Will the sepearation do good to any one of you? Is it worth it? What is your main problem to move with Dad? What is it that wants to keep you in the same place? Are you guys being selfish? Answer all these questions and you may be able to come to a decision.

The income from your dad's work supports the family. If the work in the new place is worse than the one where you lived earlier, it is not only your dad but all the family members who stand to lose in the process. Practical necessity dictates that you should all return to your earlier place.

It takes some time for elderly person to adjust with the new environments... especially when he runs some business...

Advise him to have patience... he has to compete with the people who have already established themselves in that business...

It is always better to be with family... he needs to be taken care of by you family members... he should stay back and do not give-up like this... fight back is the catch word...

Earning for the family is the prime concern for him-so I think he wants to shift back. If you all can get there whatever you are getting here, you should cooperate with him and shift back!

See According to me you shouldn't worry about the situation as its a topic af discussion of ur elders.But I think if ur dad's work is not going well then u should be supporting ur dad as he is the soul member to fill-up all ur comforts.If he is not going to earn sufficiently then what u all family members will do.R u going to earn ?????

So think about ur's and ur family's future and please return back to ur old place.

Hope I have lessen ur stress.

Well u r dad should understand that it needs time to get settled at new place try to convience him over it.

But never be commanding. Always show that final decision will be his but you are happy here.

Never hurt his ego.

Good Luck.

This is something your parents have to sort out. You keep out of it. You can plead your case however, but ultimately the decision lies with the ones that made it in the first place.

whos the breadwinner?? is it your dad? he knows what hes doing and your mom should consider going back. whats the point of staying there if he cannot pay the bills ?