How do I let her know that I want to be with her even though she is in a not so serious relationship?

wow sounds like you really love and care for her...i'm guessing you guys are good friends, right? If you wanna wait, then wait but remember what your cards are - i think you're already aware of them. Just talk with her and say "you're one of my really good friends and no matter what, i'll always be here for you - if any guy screws you over or disrespects you, i'll be the one here to make you feel better, or if you wanna hang out and which a movie, i'll be here, or is you simply just want a friend to talk to, i'm your guy - no matter what, i'm always here for you because i care for you a great deal - more than you'll ever know..."

say something like that - having to have that reassurance shows maturity and sincerity to a girl - and the fact that you're telling her that you're loyal shows a GREAT deal to a girl - i can't really explain it but it's HUGE points, trust me!

Me and my best friend are kinda going through something like this right now - except i don't have a boyfriend - we just decided not to be together at the moment - i've noticed that i think we do secretly wanna wait for each other so we've had to resaaure one another - it's not a BIG promise but it's just a little reminder of who we are to each other - good friends.

GOOD LUCK! :)

The only way you're gonna find out is by talking to her and letting her know how you feel.Since you're close friends there should be no problem having a conversation with her.

Who knows.......maybe she feels the same way as you do and is waiting for you to say something.

If you don't take the leap forward you may risk losing her so you have to decide on what you're going to do.

I say talk to her.

Good Luck.

Hopefully not. While I really don't mean to come off as being mean toward you or your question, the fact remains that there is no reason why your cats shouldn't be altered unless they are show cats, or breeding stock which you did not indicate that they were. Having your cats altered benefits their long term health as well as eliminates many behavioral problems associated with intact felines. As someone mentioned above, if you adopt from a dog from a shelter the dog will likely not leave with you unless it is fixed. Please consider having your cats fixed FIRST then look into bringing a dog into your family.

Don't do it while she is involved with someone else. Thats selfish. You are getting to express how you feel, but then she is trapped. If she feels the same way about you, she is trapped in another relationship and feels guilty about breaking up with them. If she doesn't share your feelings, then she feels quilty about letting you down/being with someone else. In the end, she just feels miserable and you got a weight lifted off your chest.

Wait until she is free. Then you can approach her and at least that way, its not a tangled messed.

You need to think about this. If you take the leap to tell her how you feel and she doesn't feel the same it could change your friendship. But on the other hand she could feel the same exact way about you and just having these casual flings until she herself or you get up the nerve to do something about it.

Just tell her, but say it in that way "i don't want to ruin our friendship but i really like you." And maybe she got a b/f cause you never actually took a step forward. So my advice is this.

If she's really a friend for that long and you've seen her through several boyfriends, it would be very hard to to ask it in a manner that offends her and you'd lose the friend ship.

surprise her with a kiss and you will know right away to go forward or withdraw and just be Friends.

if she's in a relationshiip, then she's off limits. it sounds like she'll dump this guy soon, then you can make a move.