attracted to players!!?

Whether you can see it or not you are non commital because of your insecurities & fear of being hurt, so naturally you only attract men who are non commital as well. Stable, non challenging relationships don't interest you.

I've been called a player, and I guess I sort of am. The reason for this is that I actually am looking for the right girl and am extremely picky. I do not believe in divorce, so I need to find a girl who I will not get sick of after 3 years (the longest I've ever dated).

Are the guys honest with you, and tell you they are not looking for a relationship in the begining when you first meet??

i have something to tell you that I made up myself...

1 sort-of-cute nice guy is worth all the hot playing jerks in the universe...

As 4 U I would if you meet someone that's not a player and hes nice, accept the fact hes not 1 of the hot playing jerks, you'd be surprised where it gets you with guys

Sometimes we think that we can change them that maybe this time i will be the one and they will change their ways, but thats not always the way, whats the saying a leopard never changes its spots, one day you will get sick of being stamped on and stop letting these guys use and abuse you and you will find love in someone who will love you for who you are and not what they can get. Good Luck

I know how you feel. I think the reason players are so attractive is because they are usually very confident, and confidence is always attractive. Just try and break the habit by realising they're really not worth it.

maybe you are being too shallow, and you arent getting to know the persons character before deciding whether you like them or not.