Mishell

whats a comeback for '' if you wanna say something say it to my face'' ??

I've worked with him for a while, always fancied him but was in a relationship. When that relationship ended we got together. I ended up getting back with my ex as he & our kids were so traumatised. Trouble is i'm in love (i think) with this other man. I don't usually cry but i do when i think about what i've lost. My kids however are happy & content with their mummy & daddy. I love my partner now but i just can't move on from the other guy.... What does all this mean.?

I am easy going, easily bored, easily interested, in a crap relationship but am reasonably happy despite the boredness. I'm thinking of having an affair just to spice up my life. I am 38 & still have sex appeal, although it's shrinking . Should i get out there & make the most of it or keep the peace, calm & happy families that my children thrive in.???? Please, please help.

I found out my partner played around behind my back 6 months ago. Well since then we've started seeing each other again & he states he is truley sorry & wants us to be together again. Well i'm wanting to leave my options open & not commit to anything just yet because i'm not sure what i want. I'm chatting to other guys on the internet but haven't had any other contact with men. My ex knows all of this as i've been 100% honest about it all. Thing is i'm just wondering if anybody feels i'm doing the wrong thing?? I just don't want to rush back into a relationship with a man i'm not sure i can trust. Any feedback is welcome. for the record, we were in a very long relationship & have 2 young children together.

I fall in love so easily & really enjoy enriching this experience with a child.

I got frustrated by his time away with the military & had a spat attack. He left me from then as he said he could handle not being able to be there for me & my son. We had a great relationship & loved each other very, very much. Should i be fighting to get him back. It's been 7 months since we broke up & we keep in contact every now & then. Please help.

Has this happened to anybody. I'm pretty sure i have the spirit of a friend hanging around, although i've never seem him (&don't want to).

Has this happened to anyone out there? How long was it after the procedure etc etc.

I can't be bothered being angry with him but simply don't want to be with him anymore. I feel like i need to be angry so he doesn't think i'm accepting of what he's done. I just want to talk normally & nicely with him & organise the children without any fuss. Is it ok not to be mad with him? We are not living together anymore. I know it sounds like a stupid question. I have no desire to be with him anymore.

I've found out that my partner has been unfaithful (well tried to be) with a colleague at work. Thankfully she found out the situation & was honest enough to tell me about it. He persued her not once but twice & didn't tell her about me (it's a new job) until their second meeting & she took offence & left straight away. Now he says i should have been more affectionate & loving to him. I always thought he was the cold person in the relationship. I know this is wrong but i just need some reassurance so that i feel strong enough to keep him at a distance (we have a baby & young child together). I need some of your thoughts on this. We have been together for close to 8 years.

I have an older child (10yo) to a previous relationship (her father commited suicide) & 2 young children 4yrs & 8 months to my current partner. I am so busy looking after the younger children that my daughter is forced to be independent on many occasions. I feel torn as she is demanding of attention (& i can't really blame her) but i just don't have the energy, time or motivation at the end of the day & just look forward to having some quiet time to myself. I feel like i'm pushing her away. I do put aside days & times each week to spend just with her. Can somebody tell me what they think about this as i'm feeling so torn & guilty.

I am opting to change my families diet to an organic one but due to my food bill doubling as a result I'd really like some reassurance & information about why this would be a good move & why it is worth paying the extra money to eat organic.

It is just to get him used to it so he'll drink it at childcare etc. I still intend to breastfeed him though. Is cows milk dangerous to an 8mo in small amounts daily?

How sad for children suffering neglect, abuse & not having a home, love or family. Surely abortion does have a place in society. I've seen how many of these children commit suicide or start abusing themselves so badly they die as a result.

but you have been together for nearly 8 years & in that time it has improved slowly, is it ok to keep going? My partner & I love each other & don't want to give up. We have stuck with the relationship through some very, very awful, trying times & slowly moving into something more positive. It's very slow though. What do you all think.