Is it ok to have a child in every different relationship you have.?

Yes of course. If it's all in the name of love, then what's wrong with that? It's about time we started producing more well-adjusted people!!!

Sometimes people make the mistake of seeing life to 'black' or 'white'...

PS: It's great that you fall in love easilly ... it's what makes the world turn around isn't it? Hehehe literally...

Its Ok, not against the law or anything, but what happens if this relationship dosent work out? How enriched will that child feel with a bunch of half siblings and an absent parent?

It would be wise to make sure the relationship is commited and long term before bringing a child into it. Children are alot of work, a life long 24 hr a day commitment.

How about you have a romantic dinner or go horse back riding for some enrichment.

I think it's not ok. Having a child is a big responsibility and should happen only when you are completely sure that your guy wants to share that responsibility too. A kid needs love, care, etc., and is easier when you have someone to support you. This doesn't mean a woman or man can't take good care of a kid all alone. A child doesn't hold or make anyone to stay in a relationship, so imagine after sometime, for any reason you two break up .....the kid will suffer too. A kid definately brings lots of happiness to a relationship, but only to strong relationships.....so if yours is not strong enough, could break the moment you have a kid cause, believe me, is a huge responsibility. It's after all your decision, but I wouldn't do it.

YES!!! I have a sister who has 5 children and each have a different father. You do not have to have a baby to enrich your relationship, how about waiting to see if the relationship is going to last before you decide to have a baby because in the long run the baby is the one that misses out not you.

Oh, Honey, Please say you are joking. This is not healthy for the children. That is what's wrong with today and tomorrows children. being born to parents who maybe love them or not but have them just b/c they can. That is so unfair for them. Forget about your feelings and the man who helped but think about the childs feelings before there is even a child. I hope you have considered this and it has not all ready taken place. If so, may God bless each and every one of your children with good hearts to overcome all the heart aches that lay ahead.

No, this is not a good idea to have children with every man you sleep with. If you need to enrich the relationship buy a pet.

I think it is totally irresponsible. You will end up with a pile of children all with different fathers many of whom may not want anything to do with their off spring. By all means fall in love but it does not follow that you must have a child each time. You sound extremely immature and naive and I would feel sorry for the children.

Hope, the persons you have relations with - are patient enough with a bunch of kids as you are thinking of changing them very often. Actually,children bind a couple and should be given a thought of only when there is a particular commitment level as the children are not comfortable with foster parents. They tend to locate their biological parents and if they don't see them, they tend to feel sorry for themselves. This makes them feel insecure compared to other kids especially with the ones who have both.

Let better sense prevail over the current thought now.

I guess it's great and enriching for you. Just ask yourself if it's as enriching for your children when they have no father around to be a role model for them.

Obviously, you are not giving much thought to your future ... of your children's future. For starters, nowadays it is difficult enough for a woman to find a man who is enough of a real man to acknowledge (and provide for) even just his own children, much less one that would be man enough to be a new daddy to other men's kids. Wait until you've got a marriage committment, then start making babies.