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My childs creche sent a personal financial statement of what i owe to my work? With a details of my payment pl?

This is the second time is 3 months my financial information has been disclosed to someone other than me. My mail is work is opened centrally by reception and sent to the chief executive for review. the envelope was not marked private and confidential and i fail to understand why they sent this piece of mail to my work when all other correspondance has been sent to my home address which is the address registered. is it against the law for the company in question to send my mail to my work address. this has caused me a lot of embarassement and i am furious at them. i had explained that they would recieve payment in full at the end of Nov as after a messy breakup my financial situation was a bit crazy (UK answers only please)

on saturday i changed my lo formula food from SMA gold to cow and gate comfort as she seemed to be suffering colic but this formula has'nt helped much and i dont think it is filling her as much as the sma did is it ok to change her back or will i be upsetting her tummy, i dont want to cause her distress. any professional opinions would be much appreciated or experience of anyone doing this

I am 40 weeks pregnant and had a sweep about 7 hrs ago i was 2cm dilated and 70% effaced. now i have had a bloody show does this mean labour is close or just a side effect of the sweep

I no this is my second pregnancy so i should no the signs of labour but im still in the i dont know stage. the past few nights i have had some cramping and twice when i wipe there was clear stringy egg like discharge am i on my way or torturing myself - any stories similar would help

this is my second pregnancy and im just wondering what to expect

Just wondering i am 35 weeks pregnant and due to have a hospital appointment on 9th Dec i will be 37 weeks will they do a sweep then or do they wait until my due date has passed. Also just interested to know from other mums out there who went natural with there first did they go earlier with there second?

we have asked my husbands sister to be godmother which of course she was delighted to accept now she has found out she is expecting and my mum told me in catholic tradition you are unable to be godparent if you are expecting - can anyone shed some light as i dont know if this is something that may have changed from my mothers time

We bought a new car and sent in the SORN for the old one but it is outside our door as we are waiting for a buyer, we have no driveway and no garden so outside is where our cars are kept. The car has not been driven but they came and clamped it this morning.... i am furious we dont have a V11 so we are unable to tax the car within 24 hours and the price is due to rise to £200 for the release plus a further £150 to guarantee we can tax it - if we have not drivent he car surely the law hasnt been broken as we have no where to store this car - what were we supposed to do we live in the city so where on earth are you supposed to leave your car when you dont have a drive way - this is discrimination against anyone who does not have a drive way i think it is a disgrace and as we always do everything by the book i am furious... Any help or guidance would be nice thanks

so i am off to the dentist on thurday monring for a filling - hopefully, got a toothache last night and made an appointment this morning. problem is well one.... i am terrified of the dentist and i mean terrified when i picked up the phone to make the appointment my heart was racing, just wondering do they treat pregnant women any different... they normally give me laughing gas to calm me down then the gel and then the injection to freeze, so nervousse about this that i will not sleep until i go. i know it seems silly but no matter what i think to myself i can't seem to overcome this fear.

hi i am due to go away in less than 5 weeks and have recently found out i am pregnant as i am going to be less than 3 months which in preganancy i am iam unable to fly. if i cancel i lose 70% of the amount paid if i get a doctors letter will it make a difference i dont want to lose £400, if anyone can answer or has had a similar situation would your advice would be much appreciated

Ok my last period was 19th March and like clockwork my cycle is normally 28 days but ihave ntohing from then. when i missed the first one i did a test (2 in a pack so used both) negative result also went to docs forgot i had to give a sample and had already been to the loo so i drank loads of water to give a sample which probably diluted the hcg levels but again negative test. thought i had a stomach bug as i was being sick but thought to take another test and low and behold very strong blue lines but wondering should i calculate my date from my past period - i do have a docs appointment on thursday and cant believe i already have a bump as this is my 2nd baby i suppose this is expected earlier

my last period was16th March didnt arrive and nothing since that date i have did 2 test myself which were negative so i visited the doctor to see if he could tell me what the problem was but he insisted on a 3 test which came back negative now i have constant nausea and my boobs are sore it feels exactly like my first pregnancy only thing missing is a positive test - anyone have any suggestion what it could be. I honestly dont think i am pregnant because of the 3 negative test but now im beginning to wonder

It is coming up to my salary appraisal and i am wanting some advice last year i was told i am at the top of my grade so all i got was the cost of living surely if my work is extremely well presented and my dedication to my job is second to non my performance could never be questioned - is there anyway i can question the decision of the no increase to my salary - we are not a poor company and i help sustain the companies profits in my job and have had more responsibility added this year also - i love my job but just wondering if there was any ways of talking to my employer about this

my partner was hit on the head with a bottle on sat night by some random hooligan he went to hospital and they glued the wound and put paper stitches in and sent him home, now he says he has numbness in his scalp (like if i pulla certain part of his hair he cant feel it) is this normal due to the trauma or does this spell something serious - i over react and just need to settle my mind - he is such a quiet man and i am worried out of my head as it is about the whole incident thanks in advance for any help

from 4am this morning i have had persistant lower back pain that feels like period pains is this the start of labour - i was also sick this morning. i tried to take a bath to relieve but nothing is helping, i am not in agony but it is quite annoying - from experience can anyone help - i am seeing my midwife at 2pm

how can i tell if the baby has droppped, should i be lower down than normal will i feel any different, also baby weighs 6lb at visit on Wednesday and i am petite could a heavier baby make me deliver early

Hi guys, i was wondering if anyone might be able to help me i am 34 weeks pregnant and currently finishing off the childs nursery (well im telling him what i want haha) - only problem is i cannot find winnie the pooh curtains with a 90" (my windows are huge) drop anybody got any suggestions as to where i might find them.

I am 30 weeks pregnant and recently i haven't felt the baby move as strong as it used to, i did have a checkup on Wednesday and everything was fine but just wondering how common it is for movement to reduce at this stage of pregnancy

I hope it is not only me but i just find maternity wear a bit boring, anyone know where i can find maternity clothes that are trendy and sexy at the same time, i have a wedding to attend and finding a dress seems impossible, if anyone can help please fire me your suggestions, maternity trousers are ok to find for office wear and casual but i wanna still feel sexy when out with my other half for social occasions.

I am 27 weeks pregnant and have got to a stage of being fed up, just wishing he could take the bump for a week lol, anyone else like this. I miss having a drink with my friends, sick of looking at maternity clothes and just fed up in general, tell me is this normal or am i being really selfish, and sometimes i just dont think he fully undertsands how i feel, is this my hormones and will this pass, i hate feeling like this.