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Almost 27 weeks pregnant and a bit fed up?

I am 27 weeks pregnant and have got to a stage of being fed up, just wishing he could take the bump for a week lol, anyone else like this. I miss having a drink with my friends, sick of looking at maternity clothes and just fed up in general, tell me is this normal or am i being really selfish, and sometimes i just dont think he fully undertsands how i feel, is this my hormones and will this pass, i hate feeling like this.

Update:

thanks for your answers, i do love being pregnant but am just feeling like i lost myself now lol as for lydia maybe you should try understanding how hormones have you feeling crazy sometimes, dont be so insenstive, if you have nothing nice to share dont share it

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It's perfectly normal. No, he doesn't understand. No, you're not being selfish. It will pass...because soon, you'll be so tired from not getting any sleep, that you won't even remember what a drink tastes like! :)) Going "out" will be the last thing on your mind, but getting five minutes of uninterrupted time to eat will be the FIRST thing! :p

    And guess what? I have a two year old and I can tell you this: Those little buggers are a LOT easier to take care of inside your tummy than on the outside! LOL!!!!

    Good luck to you!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You sound young and Im guessing this is your first Bub so its probably time to try and make some friends that also have babies due so perhaps join a prenantal group and you can all whinge and get fat together. Maybe do a few prenatal Yoga classes as exercise always makes you feel better about yourself but most of all put your feet up, get heaps of rest, eat nutritious and well, let your partner spoil you or if he wont make sure you spoil yourself and bask in the amazement of how clever you are and be proud of your body , stretch marks and all. You just wait till you meet that baby for the first time....oh, and dont worry about the Lydias in the world, just focus on the positives, her words arent really directed at you, she is just a sad sad person and we really should feel sorry for her and wish her good health. Look after number 1 and stay happy :)

  • 1 decade ago

    oh hun i'm so sorry your feeling like this, some women love being pregnant - some don't , i go through phases! first of all excitement - then growing and people finding out etc and then feeling fat lol and miserable! Im 36 weeks now and for the past few days felt grumpy as my backside! Feeling lonely, depressed and just genrally fed up. It's not just you, it is normal. Hormones and just being pregnant in itself takes a hell of a lot out of you and your right not everyone understands. You have so much to do and so many thoughts feelings and emotions to cope with it is hard sometimes, crikey read some of my previous posts!! : ) Before you know it you will be 36 weeks prg and helping other women with pregnancy niggles on yahoo answers like me and then helping and advising people in the newbon section!! Best wishes hun!

  • 1 decade ago

    Yup. Pretty normal. Don't worry, it shouldn't last long. Noone is on a perfect cloud nine high throughout her pregnancy. If she is, she is likely heavily medicated. (joke)

    Mood swings and getting fed up, bored, mad are all perfectly normal. It is how you deal with them that counts.

    If you miss having a drink with your friends, plan a girls night out. Go to a great resturaunt, have yummy, alcohol free cocktails and great food and a lot of laughs.

    If you are sick of maternity clothes, get yourself a killer outfit in a slightly larger than your normal size and flaunt your bump. Let it be the fabulous statement it is.

    Be honest and clear with your man, let him know just how you are feeling. Chances are, he will do everything he can to help you and make you happy.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hi sweetie x

    I know how you feel. Dont get me wrong, I really love being pregnant and carrying our precious little bundle but as soon as I hit my 22nd week I started to feel really crap. I feel emotional all the time, Im sleeping most of the time cuz I feel sooooo tired, Ive started to waddle like a duck, I struggle to get in and out of the bath, I cant stop eating, I feel really heavy and my back and legs are aching and I cant stop worrying about the baby and if she's ok. Its all normal though. Good luck x

  • 1 decade ago

    I understand what you're going through. I love coffee and cigs. But when I got pregnant, my life switched in an instant. I had to good home straight from work, quit the things that I used to love and do. But when my baby started moving, everything changed. Just enjoy your pregnancy and think that you are very blessed. Not all women can bear children. It's just a little sacrifice dear. Enjoy and good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    its normal girl!! you think its bad now...wait until you are right at the end. My due date is thursday and im so sick of being pregnant i could scream. When my fiance comes home from work and complains about his back or legs hurting i have the desire to choke him. Sometimes i wish it was mandatory for the guys to wear those sympathy bellies just so they have a slight idea as to why we complain so much.

  • 5 years ago

    confident,i'm pregnant now 17wks,yet its been almost 7 yrs because i had my son and thanks to ways undesirable my being pregnant advance into with him i advance into frightened of doing all of it back! confident i'm nonetheless being sick,very early each and every morning,already looking it complicated to sleep and that i comprehend i've got have been given extra months of this again,final time i advance into sick throughout the full pregnacy and an extremely perplexing labour too.yet i additionally comprehend that its all well worth it interior the top,my son is my existence and that i already experience a similar approximately this toddler so thats helping me by way of this time.i'm hoping issues advance for you and it somewhat is all well worth it,solid success with something of your being pregnant x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Take advantage of this time. When baby is born you'll relish the time you had nothing to do. Good luck with everything x

  • 1 decade ago

    its normal to feel like that dont worry, i know what you mea, men never understand lol. wait till you get to 34 weeks like me then your be fed up lol and cant wait to finally have your baby in your arms.

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