girls please help?

I know I hate drama, so if she wants to make some cut your losses. with the next girl though, maybe don't call quite so much... I mean try to meet with her somewhere if you want to talk, like the park or something if u don't have any money or something, cuz i don't think i would want to be called and texted so much either. (but i would just tell the person that and give them one more chance though...)

There is no real number of msgs or phone calls considered to be "obsessive".What do I mean by that? If a girl likes the person sending those msgs or making the calls, it doesn't matter to us how many times a guy would do that. .I suggest that you stop txting or calling this girl for a while say, about 3 or 4 days,then text her a msg, if she replies back, then that's a good sign, if not, forget her dude.She's not into you.

Every woman, as you are learning, is different. Some like lots of attention, others feel stalked by the same amount of attention. Just ask her what she would like.Personally I like either a phone call or an email once a day, unless we are planning something that requires immediate communication.

ok. I dated a guy i really liked and he would call every chance he could get. Maybe she not that into you, and you should move on. And if she is just playing games with you then she's not considering your feelings, and she's not worth your time. Go find you a nice girl that'll love talking to you until you loose your voice.

what you did doesnt sound that bad..i can txt for hours..lol

maybe it wasnt all the txting and the call..maybe it was something you said in the txt msg?

Just be sweet about it and she'll come around...

depends on how the girl feels about you really..

i guess dont msg back too often because she'll think you're easy to get you and be able to make excuses when she doesnt want to talk because she'll know when its convenient for her, she can just msg u and ull msg back.. sooner or later she MIGHT take it to her advantage..

moderate it.. msg her when u need to or if she asks u something.. leave the rest to phone calls or when you two meet..

let the girl make those moves first... give her your number and see how much she calls/ texts you. after a few days of that then you can decide how many times would be enough.

most girls don't like a guy who calls them all the time its feels too "clingy." i would think 2 times a day is good.

that is not obsessive. but this girl doesnt like you, and thats the excuse she used. and ya it is a game to be played. dont be mean, but dont be so overly nice either. overly nice can be seen as obsessive too. but in this case. she just dont like u and used it as a reason to get u out of her life.

maybe you need to give her some space and call her at the right times....maybe late afternoon would be a nice,lazy time to chat.....also....try not calling or texting for a few days and wait for her to do it first...then when she texts.........reply after about an hour or two.....

well my boyfriend call 13 times in one day and my daad freaked so im gonna ssay some where around three