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Guys help plz! My b/f held me tightly today and played a romantic song for me, don't know what to think, HELP!

This is totally out of character for him, he is not one to divulge feelings...hasn't said the L word yet either...however the song did...I was floored, so my response was "great song"!

Guys help me out here, give me your opinions, k?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    He probably didn't think you were that interested so he felt he had to step his game up. Or maybe you DID something to him to make him feel that you deserve something special like a reward ;-) Either way, sounds like he really likes you because guys do not go out of their way to do "nice" things for girls unless they really like them. And who cares about the L word. What's more important is RESPECT and FRIENDSHIP. Sounds like you have a good one. If you don't know what to think you probably are not ready to be that serious b/c it's obvious that everyone else thinks he really likes you. If you don't feel the same just be honest with him but you must first be honest with yourself. I know it sounds silly but really ask yourself: What do you think about that? How do you feel about that? And then you'll know the honest truth--no sugarcoat.

  • 5 years ago

    Tesla - Love Song The Cure - Just Like Heaven From First To Last - Emily The Offspring - Want You Bad (if feeling more upbeat) Van Morrison - Brown Eyed Girl Stone Sour - Looking Glass Filter - Take A Picture Collective Soul - Shine The Black Crowes - She Talks To Angels Poison The Well - Nerdy (if you want a metal love song)

  • 1 decade ago

    How do you feel about him? It may be out of character but is it in a good or bad way to you? Also you should take into consideration of the significance of the occassion, how did the event lead up to that moment? Was it meant to be a romantic evening or did it come out of nowhere?

    He could have realized how much you mean to him and this could signify that the intensity of your relationship has gone up, maybe not into the love category, but in that ball park.

    If it does mean that he loves you, how do you feel about that, and dont try to do anything rash if you are scared - wait and see what will follow.

  • 1 decade ago

    Some men are bad about how to show feelings. The first date I went on with one girlfriend was one where I barely looked her in the eye all evening. Some things just take time. I think he is indirectly trying to tell you how he may feel about you. Don't do anything different than normal. The more you try to draw him out, the more he may pull away. It may be frustrating right now, but the rewards are HUGE if this turns out to be what you already suspect it is. Time will tell you if its real or the left over pizza he had before your date.

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  • 1 decade ago

    He's ur BF, he must have realised that and known that he couldnt just be content with the title, he has to o things 4 u.

    Love brings on a change of character in everyone.

    EG, I used 2 be a quiet loner, then i fell 4 a girl and now i am not afraid 2 speak my mind, and have a decent sized group of loyal friends.

    And now I can think of nothing but ways to show my affection 4 the girl i like.

    (It comes in handy that I am a poet with published poems and I'm good at english.)

    Source(s): Gecko the brave
  • 1 decade ago

    He was in the mood for romance, so although it's not his character to come out and do something like that, I'm sure that his feelings for you and the romantic mood allowed him to bring out the hidden side of him. Enjoy the moment, you may not see it too often, but if it happened once, who's to say it won't happen again.

  • 1 decade ago

    He obviously feels very strongly for you. You say he is not one to divulge his feelings, so perhaps this is the way he can express himself. It's a good thing, be happy. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    He's just showing his feelings for you. You were amazed but let him know how you feel back. I think it was very sweet, dont read into it so much.

  • 1 decade ago

    He might be trying to see how you react to his softer side.

  • 1 decade ago

    HE LOVES YOU,YOU ARE TRYING TO LISTEN TO WHAT HE IS SHOWING YOU.WAKE UP OR YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LISTENING FOR THE L WORD.

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