what wuld u do if i had great sex and a cuddle and then next night he was too tired?

Men go on different sexual schedules. Some can go more than once a day, some once every two days, and so on.

Men also need "pull away" time. Like a rubber band. Women go up and down like waves in the emotional ocean in which they dwell. Men will get close to you emotionally, spiritually, physically, and then need to step back or pull away. This does not mean they don't love you, they just need the space that you hear about. It is the way they function. We can generalize this to most but not all men. Same with women. Some do not flip out emotionally at the drop of a hat (drama queens) and some have a good and even style of functioning.

A person's appetite for sex is like appetite for food. Sometimes we want a snack and sometimes we want a 7 course 4 hour dinner. And to our dismay, sometimes we are not hungry at all!

You may develop a sexual rhythm with him, but the daily activity can determine level of desire based upon not only physical activity but input from stress, new situations, travel fatigue, or a day that just didn't go according to plan.

We are not computers that you can turn on and off, but with some coaxing and initiation, you may be able to get more than you are now, if your desire is that grand. But you must remember to be respectful to his needs too. If it is for rest, then allow that for him and be supportive of his needs.

If, and that is a big if, you haven't been together long, or you are just dating and not committed, watch for this to be a regular occurrence. He may be telling you something by his lack of interest if it continues day in and day out.

Be patient, selfless, honest, and open. Discuss things that make you feel other than what you need and desire. He will love you for it. But don't be childish and demanding of him or he will walk away. Give him slack and open space in which your love can fill in when you are not physically together.

well I say that you just take that for what it is and forget about it.Sometimes people really are too tired for it and just want to relax. besides that, waiting a day or so for the next time can make it even better.If you do it constantly it alot of the time loses its flair and isnt what it should be for either of you.If your in the mood, let your partner know by suggestion or make moves towards turning them on.If they dont respond just smile and say "o-k, I will let you off today but tomorrow your gonna get it!" Most times planting the seed for the future helps this along and having a good natured attitude about it helps prevent you from coming across like your pressuring them.

Good luck!

Never mind..

May be he was still exhausted or doesn want to make out too often to keep the fire burning in both of u.

In any case, its normal, just kiss him and let him know how crazy u r for him.. :)

Get another boyfriend. If a man is too tired for sex there is something wrong with him.

I wouldn't mind him sleeping because this means I can get a rest too.

let him sleep.

he will miss u if he had a good time.

and everything begin again.

I wouldn't do a thing because it didn't happen to me. what a dumb question...

that happens to me all the time

I wouldn't do anything

i'd let him sleep