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What should I do about mixed signals?

I started speaking w. the ex again a few days ago after a month of not talking. She has a bf who shes been with for 8 months. We met up a few days ago and she said she still has feelings for me and everything was nice. She was supposed to come over tonight but now she says how happy she is with this guy and there is no hope for us. I dont get t. Should I just cut her out of my life? First loves suck.

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  • sharon
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    Yes cut her out and move on and yea first love sucks, but don't worry you will find the love you're suppose to be with.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey dude,

    yeah first love sucks. You should cut her out of her life, see what she did was she told you she still had feelings for you but she actually doesn't at all. She said that so you would later suffer when she told you that she didn't later. Basically the ***** screwed your life. She decided to annoy you!

    Well I hope you forget her and move on!

    Good luck dating

  • 1 decade ago

    I've been here before, but in my case i was the one with the boyfriend. It is very hard to decide what to do in this situation especially if you're still in love with that person. she shouldn't be teasing you or giving you hopes of going back with each other. if you want to go back with her, tell her and be very clear to her. she can not be messing around with both you and her boyfriends feelings. if she wants you then have her break up with her boyfriend. if not then say "hey, it was nice hanging out but we broke up for a reason so I'm moving on..."

    or fight for what you want, and let go of drama.

  • Yes move on. If it's difficult for you to see her after 8 months then probably best just to let go. Put yourself out there and see what you're missing.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Cut her out and move on - I can't stand when girls do that! She is playing with your heart and wants to see if you'll be around when she and her new guy break up or get in a fight. She's keeping you right where she wants you. Move on and meet someone new, there are too many girls around to stay stuck on one that won't treat you right!

  • 1 decade ago

    When I get mixxed signals I take the easy way out and take the negative assertion.

    So if a girl is sending me go and stop messages, I "Stop and go find someone else."

    -RNG

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, honey, cut her out. She's obviously confused about what she wants in her life. The relationship is doomed to hurt you if you continue to allow it

  • 1 decade ago

    She is happy with the new guy and won't break up with him to be with you again.

    You need some time and space away from her because you still have feelings for her too.

  • 1 decade ago

    you deserve better try having another girl friend who knows what she want do not stay attached to your ex move on cut her off

  • 1 decade ago

    Get a decoder ring

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