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Pro Life People?
I'd like you all to tell me the story of how you waited until you were married to have sex and then how it was only for making a baby. You all seem to be so moral (how if the woman had just kept her legs closed she'd be okay). What's it like to only have sex as many times as you have children?
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- princessamiLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
No I had a child before I was married, No money and no job, but I did not take the cowards way out. My daughter is now 13 years old and I don't regret having her. I did end up marrying her dad and we have 4 other children besides her. God designed sex for a man and a woman to enjoy inside the boundaries of marriage, so to say I have had relations with my husband 5 times within our 13 year relationship would be a lie. Read the Songs of Solomon full of good stuff about SEX! I should of waited but I didn't!and you should keep your legs closed if all you want to do is have sex and abort them. Abortion is not birth control. But since I have Jesus as my Lord and Savior, all my sins are forgiven and I have been washed clean and been made righteous again!
- TheOrange EvilLv 71 decade ago
I'm pro-life, but I've never made the "you're easy" argument. I don't care if you are easy or if you're a woman of Christianly virtue - nobody has the right to kill another human being without just cause, such as self-defense.
I'm agnostic, I'm libertarian, and I never claimed to be a virgin. And if I get pregnant one day and I absolutely do NOT want my child, then I will choose adoption because that is what's right and that is what's just. For me, this is a scientific and ethical belief, not a hatred of women or sex.
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
I am neither strict pro-life nor strict pro-choice.
Legally, any time I have sex I am responsible for a child, no matter what. That's the cost to me of having sex - taking that risk every time.
It doesn't seem fair that a "roll in the hay" could result in me being financially responsible for someone for 18 years. but that's the laws of nature, and of my state.
So I adapt, and behave accordingly.
- DiggyLv 51 decade ago
well, my situation is the same as my father's when my parents had me.
the woman i was with and i were dating, got pregnant, got married, now we have a 3 yr old and a 1 yr old. we have a great marriage a nice home and 2 awesome children. we weren't ready at the time, but no one ever is.
i've got 2 kids but have had sex more than twice (i think)
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
i don't know what the hell you are talking about most pro life people don't believe or do that i just think people are dumb when they have sex and don't have any protection at all then surprised they got pregnant and then say they have a choice to kill their kid i think they had a choice to have sex and a choice not to use a rubber or a pill or any other kind of protection
- ?Lv 61 decade ago
My husband and I both waited until we were married...and we believe that sex is not just for having babies, though it's a primary reason.
Your question is best addressed to Catholics.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I am pro-life and I am not married, nor do I really want to be.
So how is it people like me are able to NOT GET PREGNANT?
I have not been celibate my entire life, but I always make sure I am protected.