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How do i get rid of an online stalker?

Okay, I screwed up! I got involved in an online relationship. It didn't go beyond cyber-flirting - nothing physical, but still it is wrong. Stupid, stupid, stupid, I know! Now, whenever I try to end it, the guy cries and has threatened to kill himself! He's also hinted at letting my friends, husband and work know about our relationship. I know he's saved naughty e-mails and chats. How do I get out of this mess!

Update:

I know I screwed up! Quit harping on that - i feel guilty enough as it is! I need PRACTICAL ADVICE PEOPLE!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Ok first of you need to just end it......does not matter what he says!!! then you need to evaluate why you did this? Is everything okay with you and your husband? Then if it persists you need to tell the police cus ppl can get alot of information about you from the internet. Block this guy completley....like if its msn. And decide if you need to discuss this with your husband.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just cut off all contact. Delete and block him from your IM and email, and change your email if necessary. After that all you can do is hope he doesn't tell your friends and husband. Sorry but that's the risk you took when you got involved.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why in the world would you give him info of yourself to him anyways?!?! plus tell your husband as a joke say your where messing with him online with your friend

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    tell the police and make sure he duznt hurt u in anyway keep the emails ok ask 4 his adress and then tell police 2 go there dont giv him a hint their coming ok

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you have a husband why would you do that in the first place, you cant

  • 1 decade ago

    its your own fault for going along with the ride. If you led him on then you are getting what you deserve. I hope he lets your husband and everyone know what you did.

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