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Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?
Just wondering what the general concensus. I don't mean SEX either, so don't even try it pervs. I mean LOVE.
I never said I did love more than one person, btw, I was simply asking because it seems like I'm hearing more and more about people "loving more than one person."
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- La LuluLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
You can love many people at once, but if you mean being IN love, well, that's a different matter. There's always going to be one that is just a little more special to you somehow. Imagine you're having to choose between 2 guys and you just don't know which one. A friend says she'll flip a coin and if you call heads, it'll be "John" and if you call tails, it'll be "Ron". As the coin is hanging in midair she says whatcha want it to be? You'll likely holler out either heads or tails...that'll tell you who you're really wanting to be with....at least in theory!
But if you really do fall in love, you'll only be able to give your heart to one person in a complete way. It doesn't mean that you won't notice that other guys are cute or nice, but you won't look at them in THAT way anymore.
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- 1 decade ago
Yes, people do it all the time. You may love one person for certain traits and another for theirs. Just remember, mothers, fathers love their children and each other all the time. You can even love two men or women for different reasons but it could get complicated because they might not feel the same.
- MeLv 61 decade ago
Yes. And I dont mean it in a relationship kind of way either. I have 3 kids and I love them all =,+ I love my hubby and my parents. So I think it is true you can love more then one person in life.
- 1 decade ago
this question gets asked so much.
well, personally, i'm not sure if i've ever experienced 'love'. if you're talking about crushes, i have had crushes on multiple girls. but what i noticed is that the crush is usually bigger when it's one person. it's almost like it's divided when i like more than one.
i'm not sure if these crushes are really the same as 'love', so i can't say for sure. i think it's possible, just unlikely.
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- 1 decade ago
No. I trust that people only have one heart in their body. So the only one heart only for one person. If some people have more than one person at a time one of the other just for trial and not inside their heart. We can not share our heart with the same percents of each other. Only one person inside our heart can make something different of our live. Not more than one person. How come it will be if our live can be change with everyone?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Yes it's possible, there's all kinds of love. You could be dating two guys and there are different things you love about both of them, and yes it could be real love, been there done that.
- 1 decade ago
I think it's possible, but never to the same extent. You will always love one than the other. Which one do you think about more when you're with the other one? That's your answer.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Yes. Absolutely. I'm in that position. Not sure how to choose either.
- 1 decade ago
no i do not think its possible.when you love someone it is unconditional.sometimes it lasts for the rest of your life,sometimes it may last a year or two or even less.so my advice would be to be very selective in who you fall in love with otherwise you will be in for a very rough ride.