when i go out with my husband i find he talks about something that embarasses me...?

you know what,,, i HATE that,, guys are so stupid,, tell him straight up " i dont like it,, it hurts my feelings,, please respect me and dont do it anymore" if he still does it maybe that is not the type of person you need

If you are the type to be easily embarrassed you can work this out! There is hope!

Listen carefuly okay?

Men loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to see a woman blush or

make her blush, its such a huge drastic contrast to male and

they find it facinating. Though they themselves may not even

be aware of this , its fact.

The way you get him to tone it down, is you blush at the little things.

When ever he says something mild you blush blush blush.

Act as if you are so embarrassed that you cant stand it.

But be childlike about it , not mean. The easier it is for him

to get this reaction out of you the more mild he will be about

it. Try this consistantly for a week and let me know how it works.

Have you discussed with him why he needs to say such things? Before you go out next time with him, tell him how you feel. Maybe he thinks it's funny and that this calls attention to him in a crowd. There is a line between being genuinely funny and using your mate to call attention to yourself by embarassing her.

Then you say to him in public, loud enough for others to hear, "Listen up cloth ears: you are saying things that I find inappropriate for public disclosure. You either honor my wishes and refrain from saying those things or you are being closed off in the bedroom and you are not getting anything in there!"

Hahaha...I'm surprised you didn't notice it before marriage!

Tell him in your private time that you adore him and that you would really appreciate if he would keep these things to your 'alone' time.

give him three chance. one and two are warnings. at the third chance, tell him if he doesnt stop, do it to him. some guys think their funny when they do this. he's not!