ive been kissed once by a married man.. im married to... it was so romantic?

yikes... bad bad bad bad bad.... if you leave, do it on your own and don't run to someone else... especially if he is in the middle of his own thing... just remember what they say about the grass on the other side....

I was married for 14 years. We drifted apart. I knew in my heart and soul that there was a better man out there for me. This one just doesn't seem to care any more. yea he found someone and I thought I did also. I ended up drifting from relationship to relationship. No one could make me feel the way my husband did. I missed him but how can you go back after such a bad divorce. Well as fate would have it after 8 years we started talking again. and now we have been together for 10 more years. I regret that we ever got divorced. I should have moved to the extra bedroom and worked things out. I would suggest you do the same. you love him and he you. yea things aren't always wonderful and yes there is going to be some guy that is willing to make you feel different but no one loves you the way your husband does no one knows you the way that he does. if you have a extra bedroom move in let him know that you love him but need some time. Keep up with all the dr stuff but dont forget to TELL THE TRUTH he may be hurt and it may not be easy to say but say it anyway. it will save you a lot of time and heart ach in the long run.

Believe me there is no one out there that loves you and needs you like the one your with right now.

Actually, no, you didn't do the right thing. You never should have let him touch you at all. But at least you didn't sleep with him. He won't leave his wife for you. Tell his wife about his activities, because he may be sleeping around on her and have given her something. Yes, you'll probably get called a whore as well even though you didn't sleep with him, but you may as well have. If you do wind up with this guy, he'll cheat on you as well. You also didn't help your marriage any by behaving that way. Did you get married at a young age? If so, now would be a good time to start preaching to young people about why getting married before 25 is such a bad idea. Are you clinically depressed? If so, leaving your husband and screwing up your kids if there are any for some bum will not improve things. But do inform the guy's wife that he's probably cheating on her so she can protect herself.

Dont do what I did. Married youthful yet had many affairs all the way by using my marriage . finally after over 25 yrs I divorced him. I have been given to the element like u that I couldnt stand to look at him. infants all grew up so i become extremely on my own . enjoyed my freedom until i began out to hold out with the incorrect variety of folk and did issues that i easily remorseful approximately. stay in this marriage and in keeping with hazard seek advice from somebody professionally . DO whats ultimate for each guy or woman

We have to first be happy within ourselves before we can truly have happiness,life is not all happy either.Obtain your own identity before you think someone else needs to do that for you.Romance is fleeting,love is what endures.Think about what love really is,it is an action word.Words are words,and cheap at that,its the commitment that one will give to each other.Love stays when even in hard times,romance runs at the first sign of problems if there is no love involved.Good luck and remember your vows that were suppose to include vows before God.

How did you get yourself into this situation? If you're unhappy in your marriage, go for counseling to see whether or not it can be salvaged. If after counseling, you find you do not want to be married to your present mate, do the honorable thing and go for that divorce.

By sneaking around, you and the other married person could be doing much damage to both you and your families.

Don't jump from the frying pan into the fire. Work on yourself to find out why you're unhappy and feel as if you missed out on things in your life before entering into another relationship with another man (particularly one that is married to another woman).

The way you phrased your question "live for him or leave and live for me" sounds like you've already answered it yourself. If you're legitimately unhappy, have been for a long time, and you've taken steps to try and make it right that haven't helped then maybe it is time to go. Just don't leave him and go straight to someone else. That almost never works. Good luck.

If you are not happy, you should divorce your husband. Take care of your business before you ruin another woman's life because you are unhappy and bored. Sometimes in life, we have to delay gratification. You can't have everything that you want. It's called morals.

If you feel this way, you apparently don't love your husband anymore. Find another man AFTER a divorce, not before.

Oh, that green grass is killing you isn't it? Everybody has it better than you, huh? Prince charming on a white horse and all that jazz............. I don't think so. They call those fairy tales for a reason.