Does this seem...a little strange?

It's not that you're stupid... You just don't want to believe that he is having an emotional and/or sexual relationship with this girl... It's time to face the inevidable and stop believing his lies... He needs to stop this if he wants to make his marriage work... The longer you allow him to get away with this or YOU act oblivious to it, the easier it is for him to keep doing what he is doing...

It's hard to face that someone is being unfaithful to you... But you can't just sit back and allow it to happen when the signs are right there in front of you...

Good Luck

No, not a coincidence there is definitely something up with this girl. Honey, if there are no children involved get out and make a clean break. I applaud you for having the balls to confront your husband about this, but there is no way he's gonna tell you the truth about her and chances are she's probably in the military (and even his unit)as well. Soldiers have a tendency of sticking together so even if you try to ask his "friend" you won't get anywhere. Get out while you still can and don't look back. I know that you probably still love him, but a marriage can only work if that love is accompanied with TRUST when that goes so should he. Good Luck

if his lips are moving he is lying! He is having an affair and he is so lying to you and the lies he is telling you are not even good ones. My husband is a cheater and he is a disabled army vet, i've heard them all! Sorry sweety but what you need to do is pack his stuff and put him out! He is going to continue this affair until you have hard proof and he is going to continue to lie to you about it. Maybe you should go down to the motor pool or where ever he works and surprise him. I bet you that she is in his platoon. Oh and by the way the normally do the pee tests at 0600 when they are going out for PT. Honey, you are going to have to shake his tree a lot to get him to confess and stop his crap. Also before you do that get his phone, copy the texts and send them to your email addy. Then prent them out and take them to jag. I know for a fact the having an affair in the military is against the usmcj.

I hope you know your husband is blowing smoke up your wazoo in regards to that girl.

If there was a mandatory urinalysis, he could not just say he wasn't coming without going to a formal military hearing and losing rank, and pay.

FYI---The military does not post when they are having a urinalysis or whose names will be tested. You don't know that information until the day of the urinalysis. I know this from being in the military.

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Your husband is a liar, he is cheating you see men are not so very smart we women always find out when they are cheating and they lie to us so easily. I went through a similar situation and the girl asked me y I dotn ask my husband why they talk. He said oh we are just friends and how I was hurting his friendship. Dont mind him and that crap. My dear set a trap for him and that girl and be there to watch him fall. I am sorry that this has happened I wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy.

He's lying his a** off. Believe me I went throught the same thing. It will continue as long as you let it. I would call the number from an unknown phone and comfront the girl. I bet she comes clean!

No...he is screwing around and used the urinalysis as an excuse but something must have fallen thru so he came back home. You know this but are grasping at straws hoping it's not true.....I'm sorry.

Like everyone else on here I agree, he is cheating on you. I know the signs. I have been on both sides of that coin. And as someone else pointed out, affairs in the military are a big no-no.

It is obvious he is lying to you. You need to get to the root of the problem and stop being so naive to believe his stories of it being a friend. He appears to underestimate your intelligence. And call his bluff and call that commanding officer. He only said you could talk to his officer as a way to quiet your suspicions.