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So I am bisexual and ever since I was little I was always really tomboyish. I am 18 now, though, and am starting to get way more in touch with my feminine side and I love it. I have a boyfriend, but whenever he wants to start touching me, I kind of brush it off like I'm not interested. I am interested, but just not in the mood I guess.
Lately though, I've been having more and more dreams about me holding hands with girls, kissing girls, and being in relationships with girls.
My boyfriend jokes with me and says "you don't want me to touch you because you'd rather be touched by a girl". I have never been with a girl, but my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and are soo happy together.

But i'm beginning to question myself. Maybe I'm becoming more attracted to girls than guys? I'm not sure. I feel like I'm so in love with my boyfriend ! But lately girls have been on my mind soo much. Please give me some advice !!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Im a Lesbian, and once apon a time it was like that for me,, I tried to ignore it, and just stay with the guy i was with. But i the end i hurt him because i fell in love with a girl. He told me I should have told him. So if you feel like your going to hurt him than just tell hime you need time to find out what it is that you really want

Anonymous · Answer

interesting but if you love your dude why bother I mean if you love hime you shouldn't be thinking about others.  Maybe you need to date some other guys first because you are loosing intrest in him.

Colinn17 · Answer

start exploring..experiment but do not exclude your boyfriend.. maybe your boyfriend would like to explore with you..might spice up the relationship

cassie :] (is a dinosaur) · Answer

its ok it happens to every one or at least i think so. stay w/ your guy if u love him

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