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How can I hide my boyfriend from my parentes....help!...?

okay im 13 years old and i have a boyfriend. i really realy like him but i dont want my parents to find out bcuase they dont want me to have one. he lives right down the street from me and really is funny. he just recently asked me for my number and i gave it to him. what if he calls and my mom or dad picks up! what do i say to them becuase i know they are going to ask me who he is nad everything and why is a BOY calling me lol please help me!

Update:

ok just to add, im NOT going to get pregnant, this kid isnt like that and neither am i. and i know if hes a boy and a friend it doesnt make him a boyfriend but he actually asked if i wanted to go out with him.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    lol mmm rebelious are we?? lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dont lie to your parents, you will suffer the consequences later. Secondly, you are too young to be involved with a boy. Friends are fine, but no offense... girls around your age, are the ones who are getting pregnant....

    If he calls your house, and your parents pick up, tell them that he is just a friend, which in all reality... he is. Just because he is a boy and he is a friend doesnt make him your BOYFRIEND.... see where Im coming from.

    Dont jump into things too fast. You are way too young to be "tied down" to some boy who is curious to get into your pants; you dont need that.

    Dont lie to your parents..... thats the main thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't hide him from your parents, invite him over to do some homework or something so that your parents can meet him. At 13 "boyfriends" have a tendency to come and go, but this may be a boy you want to keep as a friend and it would be a good idea to keep it honest between you and your parents.

  • First off he is not your boyfriend. If you just gave him your phone number he is not your boyfriend. If you have to hide him from your parents there's something wrong. Why don't you just treat it like it really is. There's a boy down the street who is your friend and he makes you laugh. You like to hang out with him. That you can certainly do in front of your parents.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Your parents may not want you to have a boyfriend but they are not stupid. They know that around your age you'll start having crushes and boys will start to notice you. I think you should be honest with them about who he is. But you should also listen to what they have to say. Maybe you can compromise on something like chaperoned trips to the movies or you and him going out with a group of friends.

    Part of growing up is showing your parents that they can trust you. Hiding a boy from them or sneaking around is not a good way to start off.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him to call your cell phone[ that is if you have one]

    and when u guys go out on dates

    just lie to your parents and say you're going out with a group of friends

    when your friends are all there, you and your bf can seperate from the group and have your own time before your parents pick u up or something

  • Parents have a way of finding out and if they do you will be grounded big time..so is it worth all that? Have a friend and having a crush is normal but your parent have rules for a reason don't lie to them or to youself

  • 1 decade ago

    Your parents have those rules for a reason. You are asking to get grounded and rightfully so. Try talking to your parents. If they feel you are mature enough then maybe spending supervised time with him would be possible. If you hide him, then your parents must be right to not allow you to date as you are not responsible enough to handle it. I know what I'm talking about - mom to 4 girls and one boy.

  • 1 decade ago

    tell them he is just a friend,

    or tell him not to call,

    either way you're kinda young to be in a relatinship of any kind, I would call it off until your parents are a little more responsive to yoyur wants which should be soon,

    but if you want this then it's up to you,

    just remember, if it lasts a while your parents will find out, one way or the other,

    you can't hide him forever,

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is really easy. You don't hide things from your parents. They love you by far more than your boyfriend ever will come close too. You are to obey your parents and respect them. You don't have to agree. And you are way way too young to have a boyfriend. Last they will find out.

  • Hey I'm 14 and I'm going thru the exact same thing! I just told them that he is just a friend and I call him and tell him @ school or when I see him face to face when he can call me (for example, when my parents r @ a softball game or whatnot).

    Good luck! ♥ ♥ ♥

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