what what you feel or do?

Good God! First let me say, I am so sorry for the crap that you are dealing with. Divorce is hard enough, but to have a new wife put in your face constantly, and not to mention the neglect of his children.... Well, Kudos's To YOU for not losing it all together. I seriously mean it! WOW!

So, he wants to "play Grandpa" with the grandson.

BUT, not be the DAD HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ALL ALONG TO HIS OWN CHILDREN WHILE THEY WERE GROWING UP...???...!!!..

Just a thought, it may have been the case. I cannot imagine a father neglecting his own children.... WAIT!

Is that the only grandchild? And what does the parent of Your grandchild (son/daughter) think about this arrangement. You say that the kids are still mad, but she comes over and is with him when he sees the child? OUCH!

I hurt for you big time!!!!!!!!!!!! Please add me to your contacts, and email me anytime. This is one sticky mess!

As for him, well, he can kiss .........

For You.... focus on YOUR future, YOUR happiness, YOUR DUE TIME TO BE FREE!

Be Strong! Be Healthy! And for God's Sake, ...

Get on a Darn Cruise and TREAT YOURSELF to something for you!!!!!! Kick the sh*t aside and let yourself go!!!!!

YOU DESERVE IT!!!!

xoxoxoxoxoxox

Tell him the next time he brings her to the house that you will call the cops. And that your not kidding. This is your home and regardless that he likes it or not she is not welcomed, period. If he brings her then call the cops and get her and him for trespassing. Your kids shouldn't let him see the grandson . Make up excuses or just don't be there. Let him take it to court. It will cost too much for him to waste his time anymore. Tell him if he wants to see your grandson then his to respect your demands when it comes to your house, take it or leave. His only doing it because he knows he can get away with it. HE pushes your buttons then push his. Call the cops on them next time. Or her at least.

why cant the grandson be picked up either at the child's home, or in a public place, and I would tell my ex look this is not good to keep letting your grandson see this, and as a parent of this child I would have to talk to him as well...

your grandchild doesn't need this . Be gracious for the child's sake . You need not entertain them . Just allow them to pick him up politely .If she is starting the problems , don't invite them in . Just wait outside with him and if she says anything tell your grandson goodbye and go in the house .

Well, he should try to respect your feelings and not bring her around. Seeing her obviusly causes you discomfort, possibly even emotional pain.

Divorces can be messy. In my case, I get along well with my ex-wife's new husband; I am actually happy he married her....I am happy she moved on and has a happy life now....we were so miserable together those last few years of our marriage....

Try to make peace with your feelings about him, about her, about life. Then she won't hurt you so much.

she needs to stay in the car, or you need to get over it. if he's a jerk, just bring the kid over there.