my bf doesnt like my family n his family makes me uncomfortable answers please.?

kick him to the curb, go to court and get child support...no one but no one would be allowed around my child if they were mean to them simply because they werent his child...this guy and his family are losers

OK, I have had this problem myself and no matter what you do or say to his family or your family you cant change the way your family feels or his family feels. Besides it is NOT about them. If you let them come between you and put a rif there it is because YOU let them. Lay down the law with both your parents. If they love you they will understand. It may take some time but they will. When you lay down the law make sure BOTH of you are there to lay it down so that way you can support each other otherwise one of you will feel unsupported and feel there are secrets. They will come around eventually if he really is a good guy.

He's mean to your little girl as of now so just think how he'll be towards the baby to be.It's not good.Children are precious treasures in life and need TLC.It doesnt matter whom the father is or the mother a child is innocent.Your family comes first not him!I'd tell him to get lost because he aint worth it.You're better than he is, leave him and your family will help you.

If he is always mean to your little girl then he is definitely not the right man for you because meanness at this stage could turn to cruelty once you and he are married. You should find somebody else despite the fact that you are pregnant. Staying with somebody "for the sake of the child" should not apply in this case because of the strong risk of cruelty and possible harm to the older child. The very first time you became aware of him being mean to your child, you should have ordered him out of your house and told him never to come back.

The two of you need to sit down and talk. Its clear that neither one of you like eachother's family and it hurts to hear someone talk trash about people you love. Talk about this. You both need to come to the understanding that as long as you are together that you're going to have to deal with eachother's families, they're always going to be around. Now its up to you whether or not you choose to surround yourself with those people. Just realize that this relationship is about you and you're boyfriend, not anyone else. Don't let anyone else's opinions come between the love you two have because thats all that really matters. You just need to agree that you won't bad mouth eachother's families because obviously nothing good ever comes of it. Good Luck with everything.

I know how you feel because I'm not all that comfortable around my boyfriends family either. I just continue to be me. If I feel like being bothered I particapate but if I don't o well. I would not let them talk about me. If I had to I would pull them off to they side and let them know how I felt about whatever they were saying. If you can peep out who the ring leader is when this happens and confront them. Let your boyfriend know if you decide to do this so he won't be suprised but will have no other choice but to deal with it.

He's mean to your little girl that isn't his and your with him and pregnant by him? Are you crazy? He's gonna be mean to ya'lls child to. No wonder your parents don't like him! I can't believe you put up with that. There is a thing called birth control, you can get really cheap at the health dept, they even give away condoms. Just walk in and get some!

does he disrespect his mother?? any man who doesnt respect their mother, wont respect you...dont let him be mean to ur daughter cuz then thats just tellin him that he can say what ever he wants to say to anybody....if he dont respect ur little girl u need to comfront him on that ...becuz you are never supposed to pick a man over your child..your child comes first!!..i understand that ur pregnant with his child but that doesnt give him the right to disrespect your daughter or your family....hope this helps....

Uh they shouldn't hate you for being pregnant wiht his kid.. since he was obviously involved with making that happen. And you shouldn't stand for some asshole who thinks it's ok to mistreat your daughter... as her mom you need to put her above anybody else.

Those who don't like your family means? They dont like you too, just like your body only, specially your boy freind, Just Fu*k all of them off, Find someone else who can respect you&your family!!!