why does my mom drive me nuts and she drive me crazy?

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she complain on everything i do. Nothing makes her happy. my parents pay for my school but i didn't ask them too. i would have pay it myself.  she complain that i am not smart. she doesn't think of furture she always think of the past and complain about it to me. she bring back old stuff(like miscarriage and i am not smart and all and saying i cannot push my baby out if i keep gain weight. but i have not gain that much weight. I am about 22 weeks and she stress me out because every time i see her she complains or she repeat her stuff to me again over again and again.. 
I know my mom is doing for my own good. but she drive me nuts and crazy. Is all mom like that? 
she complain how raise me and waste all that money on me and saying she pay for my wedding but almost half of the wedding my husband pay for it. I try to make her happy but she not happy with me with anything.

LittleBarb · Accepted Answer

I thought I was reading my OWN story there for a minute---I think MOST mothers drive their daughters crazy----Mom's tend to think their children are STILL CHILDREN even when those "children" are in their 50's.....!!!!  SO,  she will baby you and criticize you and rake you over the coals and THAT, she thinks, is being a good mother... mine is EXACTLY like that....  I have done NOTHING right in 56 YEARS....yep,  it NEVER ends... sometimes even from the GRAVE they get you....  My mom is the absolute QUEEN of the Guilt Trip....I can call her up to see how she is and within SECONDS,  she is making me feel like I beat her with a mental stick... she goes for the Jugular always.   My advice?????   Ear plugs or just tune her out and pay no attention to her babbling....if you don't,  you will someday learn to HATE the woman....and trust me,  there is no WAY you can tell her SHE is wrong and LIVE TO TELL about it....so you only have one choice here--that or MOVE FAR away---but even that does only partial good.... my mom is 3000 miles away and unfortunately she can leave a guilt trip on my answering machine as easily as giving it to me in person.... good luck---it takes a LONG time learning to ignore it....

Anonymous · Answer

well not trying to be mean but if you are going to school you need to take a really good english class cause your writing is really choppy and hard to understand.  Otherwise to your question.  

No parent should ever make there child feel worthless.  Ignore her and just realize that it is her problem and not yours.  Deal with her when you have to and nothing more.  noone should ever treat you that way and if they are they are wrong.  trust me I understand, I have family and they can be upsetting at times. 

I just ignore them and have a great time with my life!  enjoy!dont let someone else bring you down thats what they want to do. misery loves company!

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tjnstlouismo · Answer

Your mother has issues and you aren't being responsible. Either put up with it or stop taking her money.

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