got a good man, been with him for 3 years..its starting to get boring you got any tips on spicing it up?

Break up w/ him and say this famous quote "I just don't love him anymore" like most girls do........

Hey, you answered your own question! Take him out a date after work, or plan a romantic weekend away. It doesn't have to be anything expensive, just spontaneous and fun. Maybe you can cook together and invite other couples over. Go to a theme park. Go fishing. I'm sure he'll get in on the planning once you initiate it. You have it made by having a good man by your side and this is a simple problem to solve.

Life is day to day routine broken up by periods of fun. Thats what it is...but that doesn't mean you can't turn up the intensity in the relationship. Find activities that you would both like to try... just make a point of never losing your individuality yet sharing each others interest even when it's not your favorite thing to do.

First thing you need to do is TURN the TV OFF...and talk.

Every now and then at random, initiate something different. Like cooking dinner in a maid's outfit with your **** hanging out and no panties, with plenty of bending over to pick up things you've dropped. A strip tease before bed. A phone call to his work arranging an assignation somewhere as though you were illicit lovers. Use your imagination.

well let me tell you I was with my man for 11 years and it had started to get like that. I left the situation completely now not everyone would do something like that, that drastic. I picked up my 3 children and we all left. I wanted to show him what life would be like without his family that he claimed that he loved. Like I said my action was drastic.......there are some things that I am grateful for because we are stronger for it, but there are alot of things that didnt go well because of it. You have to ask yourself....is this relationship that you and he are in, is it worth it do you love this man unconditionally!!!! If the answer is yes, then you need to change things because let me tell you he is changing but in a different way he is WAY to comfortable in your relationship. You need to spice it up if you want to keep him attentive. Not all men think to do this because most men think the way the relationship is going is alright. Men are physical woman are emotional and we NEED stimulation. Take him on a romantic get-away or go skinny dipping with him, take him to a hotle where you will can be a "housekeeper" and interupting him while he is sleeping....get the hint....ask all of your friends for some fun advice of what you and your man can do to spice up your life....good luck!!!

just talk to him.. dont make it seem like theres a prob.. just tell him that you guyz never get to do anything no more like before... tell him that you'd like to go places once in awhile instead of just "watching tv".. both of you two can come up with a compromise.. something like date night on sat. once or twice a mth... he decides where to go one night.. then the next date night.. u decide.. im sure that cpl dayz a mth out of the town.... will make it a lil bit more interesting.. also.. try going on a vacation.. 1 or twice a yr.. doesnt have to be anywhere far.. or whatever.. even somewhere drivable... even for a 3 day weekend... good luck

I bet he's bored to. Just try going out every once in awhile, flirting like u used to, chase each other around the house, have fun, loosen up and spice up the sex life. Experiment a little he will like it and he will loosen up too. As him some personal funny question that will spark a convo, like about his first his or something, he will be thrown off but it'll start a good convo

While dating, we need to confront some problems and it is just that everything have got to get thru. Yours is just like the other one<!--and i can tell you really clear on how to solve. Well, when dating there are things to be done and not to be done and it is really how you take it and and how you see it. If you have time take a look at the site,

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Here, they have explained everything-->you really wanted to and i hope this helps you. Have a nice day.

He is probably bored too but knows where home is and that you are there. Tell him a day ahead that you would like to go out. Ask him what he would like to do. What are you interested in? Let him know. What is he interested in? Tell him to let you know. Marriage is different than dating, it is for mature people only. Good luck

OK i have alot of things to spice things up

a. first when you man gets back home you prepare dinner with candle lights

b. make a bubble bath to turn your man on

c. then wear something sexy that makes him go wild

hope it works

light candles leading to the back yard, ifno back yard to the bedroom or bathroom. have candles lit around your area (cover on ground )etc. have some strawberries and whip cream ready. wine too if you drink,and enjoy eachother. or tell him after work you have a secret t special night planned and take him out somewhere.