Not ready to be emotionally involved.?

You have a right to live your life exactly as you want. It is not weird to want to move on. Tell him the truth and move on.

Well things is most girls when they lose there virginity most guys start to change after that acting different and not the same loving person! So that's a good thing that he clingy. I mean you would not want a guy acting like nothing happen and not to care! I mean do you want to be with him? You got to think about that first! And most girls wish after giving there virginity up that he wants to spend more time with you! Maybe you should think for the near future that are you going to have time for a boy friend! They do take up a lot of your time but some ppl can handle having a boy friend and being busy and the important things is having time for them! You should make it work spend time with him but let him know whats going on in your life! And Yes after doing some thing like that there heart is involed and they do go throw emotion! Good luck !!!!!!!!!!! Listen to your heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mianjo you need to make time no matter how busy you might be but it seems you were only with the guy for sex and the poor guy thought it was more than the sex i think you are a male version of some guys out there who are only into sex nothing else really i feel sorry for the poor fellow all you wanted was a bed fellow

For one thing if you were really ready to lose your virginity you would also be ready for a emotionally close relationship. Since you aren't ready for that type of relationship I think you made a big mistake involving another person in your emotional hang ups. You need to apologize to him and explain what a mistake you made and let him know it's not him with the problem it's you.

Tell him straight up that you want to go out and meet other new people.

So you had sex, and then YOU wanted distance. What is this guy complaining about. This is every guys dream...

loosing ur virginity is an absolute sin,like d biggest of all soo instead of worrying about someones feelings,worry about ur soul.

Either it was his first time also or he is desperate and feels like you are slipping away from him.

all i have to say is listen to your heart, explain all this to him ,and just move on and find the perfect guy for you.

maybe he is really in love with you and it meant a ot to him that he ws the first one............. better take a closer look he might be a keeper!