My wife went to a strip club...?

Be cool. For women that sort of thing is not a great turn on but just a bit of a giggle.

I think the fact that she told you shows that she trusts you and believes that you trust her. If you get angry about it now, she will clam up and you will not get any more details from her. Ask her how she liked it and how in the world she ended up there. If she starts going alot and you are concerned, then have a talk with your wife and explain that it's upsetting you and why. Otherwise, I wouldn't put much worry into it at all. I went years ago - once. That was enough. It's really not a turn on for most women - just curiosity.

I went to a strip club for my bachelorette party because I knew he was getting a stripper.

Most of those guys appear gay to me

and weird...not great looking or appealing...

takes the fun out of flirting

don't worry about it. She went because of some other friend, right?

I think it's just silly stuff...women don't get serious hots for guys that work at places like that, just doesn't happen. It's like being a toon, if you know what I mean, for everybody involved.

Did you tell her how you felt before she went? If you didn't like the idea you should have told her. If I were your wife I would have understood that it upset you and not gone. For what it's worth to you, I say ignore all those that tell you to grow up or get over it. All that is saying is that your feelings don't count. Yours count as much as your wifes. I got married because I wanted to be with my husband and share a life together. Of course we don't agree on everything, but I would never do anything I knew would hurt him or his feelings. He would do the same for me. I fail to see how going to "giggle" at naked oiled up men proves my love for my husband.

It was her first time wasnt it? its just adult entertainment,l chop it up as just that, if she started going every weekend or every night after work then id be concerned. I suggest you hear it out, once shes given you the whole story they'll be nothing else to tell and it will be over, be greatful you got a wife that give you the run down of her whereabouts etc

I went once or twice and it was an experience. But I didn't let it run my life...I didn't make a point of going repeatedly. It will lose its appeal to your wife after awhile. From your message, it sounds like it was a one time event. Physically perfect dudes all oiled down with mineral oil don't really turn us on so much as cause a bit of wonder...but not "wonderful." I didn't like the idea of an oily dude sitting on my lap and messing-up my clothes and I certainly wouldn't tip him to do that.

get over it...just entertainment,how would you want her to react if the shoe was on the other foot ,oh ...tell her that your going to a strip club,see what reaction you get,that will tell you how you should react....if no reaction then go and come home late !

She wouldn't be telling you things about it if it was a big deal and she were trying to hide anything.

If you don't want to hear about it for whatever reason, just tell her so.

Big fkn deal...grow up ya weenie... You've never seen a set of Ta Ta's on a chick dancing on a stage? Its the same thing when males are stripping..(without the ta ta's)

It is just fun and games.....most strippers are not even hot. Don't sweat it. It is really nothing to worry about.