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Am I waiting for someone who is never going to come around? (guys answers)?

I have been interested in this nice christian guy for about two months now. I told him about a month ago that I liked him and he said he thought I was cute but didn't feel that God wanted him to be in a relationship just yet.

I took that answer, but it still felt like he was always flirting with me. Well I tried talking to him about it about a week ago and he told me that he likes me but is just as confused as I am right now.

He says that he just doesn't know if I'm the one..

Does that mean he isn't willing to give it a try?? Is there any way I can convince him that he probably WONT know until he tries?? And how long should I have hope for being with this guy?

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  • Niko?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    He wants to be with you, but he's letting religion get in the way of his wants, which is fine. It's obvious that he likes you, he said so himself, but he's religious, and you've got to respect the boundaries he's setting. If you want to wait until "God" tells him that he can date you, then by all means. But if you feel he's not worth the wait, then forget about him. It's all about what you think, not us. Feel it out, and choose.

  • 1 decade ago

    That doesn't sound like hes brushing you off, more like his feelings from you are progressing forward. First he listed to God about his decision in getting with you, and now he must have approval but he isn't sure that you're "the one." That means he wants a long term thing the next time he dates someone. He may be willing to try. Just wait this thing out with talking to him and see what happens from there.

  • 1 decade ago

    Either 1 he is just politely trying to tell you no and you arent taking the hint or, he really likes and it just isnt the right time for him to go into a realationship

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    man! he has some serious issues. You can find someone ten times better. He isn't right for you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    god doesnt want him in a relationship? hes ******* gay, or needs to get out more.

  • 1 decade ago

    If he can't make up his mind or is being vague, you're wasting your time.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hes confused...dont even bother...

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