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A little insight, please! ( guys & girls please answer!)?

I've been seeing this guy for awhile now, and had told my best friend that all I wanted for my birthday was for him to kiss me (we all worked together at the time, and she told him). When she did, he smiled and blushed. Last Monday (the 18th) was my birthday and he came over for the party. When he was leaving, he said that he hoped that I had a Happy Birthday and kissed me. We usually talk online just about every night (since neither one of us likes to talk on the phone), but I haven't heard from him since that night. Our friends (that he and I share) seem to think that he's scared. I'm confused because he initiated it. If he is scared, how do we move past this? What do you think? Any insight would be appreciated! Thanks!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    He probably kissed you because as a man, he is expected to kiss you. What I would tell you to do is email him and ask him where have you been in a joking no pressure tone. If he doesnt respond then move on. Does it really matter whether he is scared or not. At this age, he shouldnt be scared or women

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, you should have probably started talking on the phone together before this. He is probably so used to talking to you on a messanger, and now that this happened, he is probably too shy now and doesn't know how to take all of this.

    Some guys just don't know how to handle the situation and they just wait and see what happens. After he kissed you, he probably didn't have a clue as to what to do next.

    Just try to talk to him, on the phone, not online. Or better yet, in person. Get him over what ever he is stuck on, and see what happens from there.

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    5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    that was only a few days ago chill. Atleast you can find him. I met a guy that i like at a thing and kissed him and have heard from him once and that was like a week ago so just chill.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think that jus means that you have to be the brave one. Just go all out and tell him how u feel. Chances are he feels the exact same as u do. Some guys are slow so thats y we need to help them out.

  • 1 decade ago

    He just feels shy about the kiss, that's all, he'll be right back in a while, don't worry.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He's shy, talk to him. He'll totally tell you whats up if you make him feel not so shy.... Next time you see him, go up to him and kiss him, he'll feel so much better

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think that he is shy. It was probly awkard of him to kiss you, so now he is embarrased to talk to you. Just give him some time

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well you could always sit down with him and ask him what is going on wit him because he might be scared that you dont like him how much he likes you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Simple, invite him over to dinner and see what happens.

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