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What should I do? My mahal best friend is here in the states and being abused by her husband.?

I live in Boston She is in the Mid west.. I have taken her home once and explained that this *@# @^## she is in love with is a sick baztard. He sweet talked her back to Ill. and married her. She Emailed my mahal and said he has hit her and made her bleed. I am 800 miles away. Should I jump in my car this weekend with my pit bull and a base ball bat and take out his knees and explain to him what will happen next time or hire her a very good lawyer and take him for everything he's got? Or do you have a different idea. i am mad as hell at him not her.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    you do not want to do that.she should call the police and file charges or restraining order on her husband.she should stay somewhere safe where her husband cannot fine her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    knowledge of a crime (& yes that is a crime) gives you the right & the duty if not the responsibility to report it to the proper authorities... & that would be to the local police or the sheriff's where the "crime" was supposedly committed. (you can even do so anonymously)

    after you've done that, they would send out people to do an initial interview or investigation based on your call, & then if there is evidence or if your best friend would want to do a citizens arrest then the authorities would book the guy. they would also advise your friend on how to obtain a restraining order for her husband.

    there is no excuse for domestic violence!

  • Bill O
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    She might not want to call the police BUT you have her address and YOU can, just call the police and tell them she just called and her husband is beating on her and they will dispatch a car and when they see that she has been roughed up she won't have to sign a complaint its automatic as they will arrest him for domestic violence, then when she calls you go pick her up along with her things and help her file a ppo and divorce and take him to the cleaners. Problem solved

  • 1 decade ago

    Do the legal way, hire a good lawyer (if he has money) if he's worth less than a penny, go west side upp his ***, bro, that's your bestfriend, do what your heart is telling you and don't let anger control you too much, if you try to go bloodz & crips on him you'll be as worst as him. If you realy want to ruff him up, listen to some DMX to make you more aggressive.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Call your mahal best friend to report a domestic violence case to a local police station. Make sure that she got a number of evidence.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dial 911 and inform the police.

    But your friend has to realize that what her husband is doing to her is wrong. Her husband will not change if she keeps allowing him to hurt her. Her husband will not change if she continues to forgive him after he hits her. He cannot change if your best friend keeps on taking him back and reconciling with him. The change has to come from her.

    Lastly, are you in love with her? Seems like it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    dial 911.

    report a domestic violence. your mahal has to be courageous enough to fight back or else just pray for her.

  • 1 decade ago

    Keep out of it unless you want a bunch of trouble !

  • 1 decade ago

    Take her away from him and seek legal advice.

  • 1 decade ago

    listen to her but she has to be the one to leave or she will keep going back. he should be in jail.

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