Give me your opinion very important?

OMG this question so made me smile....I'd like to guess that a lot of people have the same dilemma as you, I know I have at times.........you're so right in what you say there about people sticking their tuppence worth in when not asked for - yet can't be found for love nor money when you go looking.

I don't know the answer to this problem accept to say as someone already suggested....when they try butting in without being called for the next time....ask them how come they're not there when you REALLY need them.....Tell them if they're going to be selective in giving the real help, the asked for help - then you'll be selective in when you'll listen to them.

Some people like to make people think that they are helpful when they actually aren't. This seems to be the case with you. The next time one of them opens their mouth in front of someone else, ask them why they never help you when you really need it. That should solve the problem.

It sounds like when it's financial help you're on your own. Howevever, they've got more than enough free advice on non-monetary issues. Am I close? They must know you well and know you always need money and but can't pay it back.

Family is something you can never change, but tolerating them is another thing. People think we should, but they need to be put in their place.

It sounds like your family only wants to help when it's on their terms - which isn't right. Confront them about it and tell them how much it hurts you.

Good grief, that question takes some deciphering and even then I'm not too sure about what it is you are trying to say.

no offence but i think there shallow and just want attention from other people and dont care about nobody bvut themselves

It is all because of the MONEY word... say no more!

You can pick you friends but you can't pick your family

may be they cant say yes