is it wrong to want to be her friend still?

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since the breakup...i wonder about her constantly, we were lovers and best of all friends, now that she's gone is it wrong for me to worry and wonder.  I would love to be her friend still but I guess that's up to her....is it wrong to want to be her friend after such a bitter breakup and basically out of the blue on my side!!!?????  thanks

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, there is nothing wrong with that.Just because you fell out of love romantically doesn't mean you wont have strong feelings for her. Usually when your in a serious relationship even after the breakup you will still have feelings for the other and wonder and worry about them.So if i were you I would call her to check up and see how she is doing, but if she cant handle you as a friend just try to let go and move on.

libbynstanlo · Answer

I dont think its wrong to be friends but i do think that she is entitled to an explaination and just let her knowhow you feel. It will take time or if shes cool maybe not but explain yourself and feelings.

me · Answer

Give her some space and start talking to her. It doesn't hurt to gain a friend, right?

Anonymous · Answer

No I think it's sweet that you still wanna be friends with her!
But like you said it's up to her = )
Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

give her time.  but then talk to her!  explain to her that you still care about her in a friendly way and you want to be friends.

Amboo · Answer

well you will have to give her time but tell her hay lets be civil about this and be friends if she cant be friends then ask her to be an acquaintances

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