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is DC traffic really the nightmare I have heard it is??? just curious coming in for a visit for my 1st time an using subways mostly and renting a car for 1 day to go elsewhere, thanks

Getting ready to come out to Boston on Oct. 13-16. It will be my first time to the area, anyone have any recommendations, what to see, what not to see, where to eat and such. I am thinking of going up to Maine as well, is that a good idea, or is Cape Cod worth seeing.....need ideas etc..... Being from Utah it'll be a different visit, but hope it'll be fun....again any suggestions would greatly be appreciated.

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Well just as I thought, she left me to move back to more familarity, better financial support for her kids and such. Now after being apart for 1 1/2 months she is having alot of 2nd thoughts as to why she did this. I have told her I'll remain her friend even though she really hurt me, but i get a sense of remorse in her voice, and it is very pleasant in talking with her. She states she knows she made a mistake, she hates it where she relocated to, her kids hate it as well and ask questions about us and how happy were you really with him mom....I know it's not a quick fix, but what should/would anyone else do. I do miss her a great deal and know that if she really lets herself be happy we can be the couple we have always dreamed about. It's not going to be easy but I know with our talks it's going to come out about getting back together......when that happens I just want to be totally ready for all factors concerned. Thanks

any body excited about the new news of David Lee coming back to VH? I am a little bummed that Wolfgang(Eddie's son) is now the bassist and they kicked Michael Anthony to the curb...maybe Sammy and he should form their own band together?? It's kinda bittersweet but exciting at the same time

Why is it everything is a quick fix with a phone call to a lawyer??? Why is it that we can sue everyone just because it doesn't suit us. Divorce is way overrated and people don't want to work at their problems anymore, look at most of our parents, mine have been married for 40 years, and they have had their issues but they don't "give up" like most people do now. It's disheartening anymore to hear of the divorce rate any more, people we need to think b4 we act and get married.

Divorcees are giving us all bad names, i know there's execeptions to every rule , but it's crazy anymore

what do we think about Eldrick's chances now, a 36 hole lead for him is usually pretty safe but lots of golf yet to play but I think he's a focused and dialed in and I really don't see anyone overtaking him...keep up the good work El Tigre!!!!

My ex of just over a month, after a shocking leaving of me, moving to another state to be with her ex and for her kids sake, has been contacting me recently via email and phone. She has gotten a job in basically the same field that we met at and is asking me for hints and ways to work her system to fit into her new job. In some ways I do enjoy her contact but I am still hurt very bad over her leaving me, I think I need to come straight out and tell her what this is doing to me. It takes people a longer time to heal and looks as if she has (maybe not) and I am having a hard time with it. It might be impossible to be friends if my feelings stay this way. Should I keep in contact with her or should I tell her I need more time to heal up and then see if my heart allows space for her in the future. I think I know the answers but it helps me to hear it from others.

Well it's been just over 1 month since she left me to go back to her ex and make a better life for herself and her kids. I had not heard anything from her in 21 days and then all of a sudden I got emails from her. We started talking again and she even talked about how much she missed me and how much she thinks about me. I emailed her back gave her the lowdown of what's been going on, and that I wanted her to help pay 1/2 of the bills for the house we shared b4 she left. She basically took that as a threat, and that I didn't care about her. She gave me a brief lowdown of what's going on with her and the kids, she got a "good" job and has a good future with it, as if to gloat a little bit. I wrote her back and said thanx for the info and I said it gave me a bit of closure I needed to move on. In a mean way she said here's your closure...good luck. I have decided to pay the bills myself and move on it's hard still but I have to. Do you agree??

My ex had been in contact with me via email and trying to call me on phone(to which I didn't accept). But I got an email from her stating should she keep in contact with me, and I miss you soooo badly and think about you everday...is this wrong and I'm sorry if it is. So I took it upon myself to fill her in on what's been going on in my life. She's been gone a month and moved to another state after we tried it again after a move from another state. She said we were just polar opposites and she had to move back to Calif to be in the fast lane, and so her kids dad would be more involved. She sounded very sincere then get news that she got a new job and basically for me to take care and good luck with my life. I know I played with fire, and got potential hopes up again only to get burned, now she's playing like she's better than me and gave me the "proverbial" kiss of death. Its my fault for talking to her but I wanted to stay friends, guess it's impossible, I tried now I'm done

Went to their concert at Cheyenne Frontier Days, and boy oh boy do they still bring the house down, they don't play as long as they used to, but they all still know how to do it...check em out the rest of the tour!!!!!!!!!!!! Rock of Ages!!!!!!

Hey after my recent breakup about 3 1/2 weeks since she left and 4 weeks since I've seen her, she emailed me out of the blue, nothing major but a start and then tonight I got a voicemessage from her stating she wants to talk and see how i'm doing. It's really hard to hear her voice again, I have started to put her out of sight out of mind, but now i know she wants to still be "friendly" and probably the move for her, the newness is wearing out and she might be "missing" me to an extent. I may be wrong, or maybe it that she just needs to talk to someone other than her kids.....aargh what to do...I would like to be friends with her but feel it's too early, so close to the breakup. What would anyone recommend? Should I stay friendly or let her have it??? Life and love what's a guy to do??? thanks

Today after she has been gone 3 weeks and a little over 3 1/2 weeks since I've seen her, she emailed me today....nothing really just small talk. Just curious if this is ok or will it lead to talk that I and she aren't ready for.....She totally destroyed me with the news that she was leaving me, but I have been getting better in the days without her, but there are times I wonder what's up with her, I guess I can take it slow answer her emails and if it gets too personal then I can answer or decline....just curious on what others might think on this issue. I still care and wonder about her and her well being I just think 3 weeks is a little soon on her behalf, unless she's over it!!??? Advice on what anyone else would do or has done......

How do I know if a recent ex girlfriend that left me to go back to her home state and to go back for the sake of her kids and financial security, is doing ok.....I do not want to call, text or email her for fear of my sign of weakness. It's been about 3 weeks now and no contact but I still have feelings and basically just want to know if she and her girls are doing ok. I guess it's up to her and when she wants to contact me await for that, but if i don't get it just assume that everything's ok.....I sure do miss her though, I know it's strange but we had a wonderful relationship when things were good!!! Oh well chalk it up to experience and move on!!!!!!!!!

So I'm getting ready to see the best band on the planet for my 13th time in my home town and best place (besides redrocks in Denver) to see a concert at Cheyenne Frontier Days, July 28, I was curious of anyone that's seen them thus far how they sound? I have always said they are like a fine wine and seem to get better with age!!!!!!!!!! It's gonna rock Cheyenne. then i can't wait till Sept 7 to see them here (where I now live) in Salt Lake City for my 14th time....people say i'm crazy for seeing them so much, but hey there's worse things to do with your time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Def Rocks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am in a state of confusion, I recently had my girlfriend move back with me and then after a month she decided to move on to get back with her ex in another state. My situation is she went back to her "home" state, and told me that it would be good for me to go to my "home" state as well. I have a good job where I'm at, but there's alot of reminders of her here, as i met her at the present job, this town is where we started, but things went sour. I do want to go home again get a job and get comfortable again, but I am nervous about moving on. I am slowly getting over her, but I am not comfortable being in the area we met and know I'll be happier back home, but I'm leaving a good job and concerned about that....guess I gotta do what's going to make me happy. It's been a tough month and just needed to vent a little...thanks

Still on a bad breakup on my end. After almost 17 months, most of it good, but rocky at times, she left me almost 3 weeks ago. We started out at work together, i moved her and her family with me to another state, she hated it there, but had the decency to stay on all of our behalf. I saw that the unhappiness was there and I moved back to the state we met, got my old job back and was away for 3 months, visited alot, talked everyday and couldn't wait to get back together and really had alot of hope and love there, and once the lease was up on the house, moved them back into a "decent" house and after they visited the "father" for 10 days, she decided that we weren't going to workout and moved out to be closer to him. I was very devastated, she said it was not really us but something she had to do for the sake of the kids. I am still hurt but everyday it's getting better...I just want to know if she and the kids are ok, but i don't call as much as i want to...day by day ugh!!!

Is it normal to have the feeling of wondering what she's doing and how she's doing. When if ever will this go away?? I just wonder if she thinks about me even though she's in a situation she thought was ok to go to, or is it that easy for a person to forget everything that happened and move on with her life?? She stated we were total opposites, country met the city and our goals just were not the same anymore.... I know she's probably trying to stay busy but I'd like to really see how she's doing with this recent breakup and her leaving and if this is truly what she wants or wanted.....I guess that's for the future to decide but it's still not easy....oh well, day by day!!!!!!

Its about 2 weeks after a "out of the blue" breakup, and she has since left me. I find myself sleeping in before my work shift in the afternoon, is this depression of her leaving me and is it normal to not want to "wake up" in the morning b4 work (230p) like i did before??? it's been tough, let me know

She recently left me 2 weeks ago, and I worry about her well being alot, but I don't want to pry. I am just very very hurt after she left me after being together for 1 1/2 year together. I know I have to move on but i have good and bad days...too many reminders at the job, the town we used to live in. etc...any helpers to help me try to "let go"

since the breakup...i wonder about her constantly, we were lovers and best of all friends, now that she's gone is it wrong for me to worry and wonder. I would love to be her friend still but I guess that's up to her....is it wrong to want to be her friend after such a bitter breakup and basically out of the blue on my side!!!????? thanks