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she's calling...?

Hey after my recent breakup about 3 1/2 weeks since she left and 4 weeks since I've seen her, she emailed me out of the blue, nothing major but a start and then tonight I got a voicemessage from her stating she wants to talk and see how i'm doing. It's really hard to hear her voice again, I have started to put her out of sight out of mind, but now i know she wants to still be "friendly" and probably the move for her, the newness is wearing out and she might be "missing" me to an extent. I may be wrong, or maybe it that she just needs to talk to someone other than her kids.....aargh what to do...I would like to be friends with her but feel it's too early, so close to the breakup. What would anyone recommend? Should I stay friendly or let her have it??? Life and love what's a guy to do??? thanks

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    4 weeks since you last talked.....follow your heart if it was meant to be it will, only you know how you feel and the circumstances surrounding the break up ...where it goes from here is up to you, what ever you decide take it slowly and let her lead then you'll know how she feels and you can decide where you go from there

  • RAVEN
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Ignore her calls and texts, IM's and emails. She will hurt you again. Do not let her play you or string you along. You do not deserve that.

  • 1 decade ago

    contact her, stay friends, help her get over it.

    if she tries to get back together, and your not ready for it, then say so and keep your distance.

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