question to ponder?

I am in a state of confusion, I recently had my girlfriend move back with me and then after a month she decided to move on to get back with her ex in another state. My situation is she went back to her "home" state, and told me that it would be good for me to go to my "home" state as well. I have a good job where I'm at, but there's alot of reminders of her here, as i met her at the present job, this town is where we started, but things went sour. I do want to go home again get a job and get comfortable again, but I am nervous about moving on. I am slowly getting over her, but I am not comfortable being in the area we met and know I'll be happier back home, but I'm leaving a good job and concerned about that....guess I gotta do what's going to make me happy. It's been a tough month and just needed to vent a little...thanks