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How do I know if a recent ex girlfriend that left me to go back to her home state and to go back for the sake of her kids and financial security, is doing ok.....I do not want to call, text or email her for fear of my sign of weakness. It's been about 3 weeks now and no contact but I still have feelings and basically just want to know if she and her girls are doing ok. I guess it's up to her and when she wants to contact me await for that, but if i don't get it just assume that everything's ok.....I sure do miss her though, I know it's strange but we had a wonderful relationship when things were good!!! Oh well chalk it up to experience and move on!!!!!!!!!
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
it seems like you really care and if its on your mind so much to ask it here...then i think your best off contacting her and letting her know that you are thinking of her and hope everything is ok with her. by doing that your not showing her that your still in love with her or anything..just showing that your a nice guy and you wish her the best
good luck
- *♥sugar♥*Lv 51 decade ago
Who says ,u gonna appear weak juz by sending her an email or sms?? It takes aLOT OF GUTZ to talk or contact someone who appears shallow.Oh come on...it'll show that u still care no matter wat has happened.Pls dun fence ur emotion and retain urself from contacting her.
At least send her a greeting msg..and c how's her reaction.k.
Believe me..u r gonna feel lighter after doing this.
God bless u buddy!!
- 1 decade ago
well that a hard one. If you left on good terms, I see no reason why you can't call to see how she is doing. However if you left on not so good terms, just let sleeping dogs lye, and chalk it up.
Good Luck
- one_goofy_devilLv 51 decade ago
i dont think you will look "weak" if you sent an email asking if she and her girls are ok.. i think it would be nice. nothing wrong with ex's being friends ;)
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- 1 decade ago
i would email. caring is not weak, it's compassion. that way she can respond in her own time and no one is put on the spot. it's also less creepy than spying, ya know?
- 1 decade ago
I think you should call her. Just ask her how things are and how she is settling in. Just don't tell her you miss her and all that.
