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Stymie
Lv 4
Stymie asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

1 month and counting?

Well it's been just over 1 month since she left me to go back to her ex and make a better life for herself and her kids. I had not heard anything from her in 21 days and then all of a sudden I got emails from her. We started talking again and she even talked about how much she missed me and how much she thinks about me. I emailed her back gave her the lowdown of what's been going on, and that I wanted her to help pay 1/2 of the bills for the house we shared b4 she left. She basically took that as a threat, and that I didn't care about her. She gave me a brief lowdown of what's going on with her and the kids, she got a "good" job and has a good future with it, as if to gloat a little bit. I wrote her back and said thanx for the info and I said it gave me a bit of closure I needed to move on. In a mean way she said here's your closure...good luck. I have decided to pay the bills myself and move on it's hard still but I have to. Do you agree??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    yes i do, moving on is hard, but she has made her decision and sounds a little bitter about it, but the decision was hers to make, sounds like she is opting for the comfortable life rather than with the one that would make her happiest, and she felt the need to vent, you were the obvious choice, let her get on with it, and you try too, it will become easier, good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    moving on is the best thing to do. Pay the bills, and have a happy life.

  • Mr R
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Yup, it's time to move on to bigger and better.

    She has, you might as well too.

    Life is too short.

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