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I badly need some helpful advice or opinion about this one...?

The other day i phone someone ( a special person ), i asked him if he still want to see me or for me to call him,he said he has a lots of problems now and he don't want to talk to anyone. I told him that he just need to answer by yes and no.He answered me yes, it hurts me although i know that when i ask that question there's a big probability that he will said that. So on that moment it finally hit me that everything is all over for both of us. The next day early morning he called me asking me to help him packed his things from the hotel he was staying..Maybe because of the feelings i have for him or as a good friend i go w/him and help him packed his things.We never talk about anything i don't dare to ask why he called me again or whatsoever.Does his act means that I just need to give him time and space to finish his problem and he will be back on me???or rather he just need someone to help him packed his things that time??Thanks

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I suggest you give him some space. Although I am not a relationship expert, I think that this guy just needs a little time off. If he comes back in a few weeks or days and has a good, reasonable explanation with him - well then you should accept him if you want to.

    I think he asked u yo pack things with him becaues he wanted you to be a part of his life - his leaving, his going away. I think it's a sign that he still wants to be with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think that he only wanted help packing things.

    I think he wanted you there. He may not have had the words at that time. Sounds like you need to give time and space. It will help you figure him out and he can sort out his problems to.

    If there is something there you will fall right back into place where you were before any problems began. take your time and don't rush things. demanding an answer can cloud his thinking and sorting process.

    I was in the same situation two months ago. i gave time and distance and petended like it didn't bother me and she can back. Now its better than before.

    Best of luck to you.

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    5 years ago

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  • Yvette
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    He definitely needs space. He probably wanted to see you cause he misses you but maybe he doesn't want to hurt you that's why his trying to avoid you fo now. If you really care for him, give him time if not then start looking for another guy!!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Help him pack and find out maybe thats his way to get together to talk'

  • 1 decade ago

    He'll never be back on you, and you should let him go and find someone that's a little less of a project. I admire his honesty

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