I really need some advice here pls....?

i think you need to get away from him immediately you dont know what he is trying to do or he even is married or not find someone else you love you could even get raped

When you are intimate with someone, you shouldn't "have to read" their actions.

You should be close enough that you can talk about it.

He's not telling you anything because he doesn't have to. You're FWB so there's no feelings involved either (or so he's thinking).

How do you "know" that he's 90% divorced?

Did they file divorce papers yet?

Did they get attorneys?

Are they separated?

And what's 90% divorced anyway....either you're divorced or you're married. Not too hard to figure out.

You need to tell him that you can't be involved with someone that is "still married". And he can call you once he IS divorced.

Yes it might be tough and tempting but just remember it could get alot harder when you develop feelings for him and you find out that he's never going to leave his wife.

Right now he's playing you because he can and it's working.

Outsmart him, get away from him, let him know you aren't falling for it and not taking it.

If he's truly divorcing, he'll call you when it's over.

If he's not, then it's better you get out now.

It's still not ok to be with a married person.

Doesn't matter what the situation is:

THEY ARE MARRIED !

Wait until they are atleast separated and on their way to a divorce.

He could be telling you anything that he thinks you "need" to hear just to get what he wants from you.

Show him you're smarter than he thought and not going to take it.

Good luck

If he's truly divorcing, he shouldn't even still be living with his wife.

They would atleast be separated....legally not just by "the looks" of it.

You need to stay away from married men. Make that a priority. It is an insult to be hit on by a married man. All he wants from you is sex. He is using you. Doesn't it bother you that he made a commitment to someone else and is now lying to her and cheating on her? Why don't you care about his wife? He is a liar and a cheat. I can't understand why any female would want a man like that. If he cheats on his own wife, what makes you think he would ever tell you the truth. Stop allowing yourself to be used by an idiot. No decent, self-respecting female will EVER hook up with a married man. Do you know what men think of women who date married men? They think they are whores and have no respect for them. He is lying to you. He is an immoral adulterer and you have NO future with him.

My suggestion is that you take your mind off of men & sex, and instead, get an education. Yes, go to school and focus on improving yourself so you aren't so desperate that you need to allow yourself to be used. Only desperate females, the ones who can't seem to find a decent single man, will stoop so low as to date a lying cheat who is already married to someone else. Have more self-respect. Married men who cheat are garbage. Put him back in the trash where he belongs, and go to school.

Move on, IMHO he is taking advantage of your loving nature.

Tell him to stay away from you until he is officially divorced, sounds like he is a sweet talker but gives you moments of honesty that way when you finally get tired and make demands he will tell you "but I told you thing were going better, I never lied to you"

Enjoy your life now and don't wait around for someone who is cheating on his wife-all the horrible things he MAY say about her if he does could be true but odd are there could be reasons (like him cheating on her, lying, disapearing on odd business trips, unexplained credit card charges...) to make her be suspious.

It's better to be alone and liking one's self and being proud that you can deal with hard choices then to be in a constant state of confusion & dispare.

Just my 2 cents. Good Luck!

His actions are fairly obvious. He is playing you.

Pick your cliche':

My wife doesn't understand me

Our marriage has been over for years

You "get" me

I've never done this before

Tell him to man up.......... if a relationship is what you are after. Otherwise he'll just keep doing this. If you just want "FWB" then I'd suggest you find someone who isn't married. You don't want a piece of THAT drama.

Are you serious? First of all you start out by stating that he is 90% soon to be divorced LMFAO @ U...there is NO SUCH THING AS 5% OR 10% (in regards to getting a divorce)...either he is or isn't and HELLO HE ISN'T ...you are nothing more than a roll in the hay for him...MOVE ON!!!

He is doing this to you because you allow him to and he will continue to do it until you put an end to it. What you need to do is tell him that once he is 100% divorced, you can pick up where you left off, but until then, you can not continue to see him.

90% soon to be divorced=married,

plain and simple

he is getting to have the best part of you without a commitment.. don't let it happen again.. he's a piece of ****

He wants you for a "booty call" on occasion. He is NOT leaving his wife!