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Monzi asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Ungrateful Friend?

I helped a friend get a job with the same company I am working with. Recently, she got the job & had a higher position than I have. It'a alright for me that she got the higher position but I noticed that she does not want to talk to me anymore, and even make mean comments when she sees me. Is she a friend or what? Now I would like to regret the time that I helped her, but I still want to think that friends should help each other. Please give me some words of advice.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It is pretty wrong what she is doing to you. It seems like she was just using you to get a job. It is great that you are helping your friends out. Unfortunately, there are always going to be people like her who doesn't understand what you did for them. Now that you know what kind of person she truly is, you should stop associating yourself with her. Don't let it stop you from being a good person!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to let her know somehow (call her up on the phone, pull her aside at work, whatever) that she hasn't been very kind to you lately, and you don't appreciate it. If she gets angry, don't tell her it was initially through you that she has her job in the first place because that will only shut her out even more. Just let her know that you still want to be her friend.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    take a seat her down and attempt to knock some experience into her. tell her you isn't friends along with her if she keeps the full woe to me, my existence is terrible, and no-one likes me act. attempt to tell her that her existence isn't that undesirable and if she does not replace then call her mom and tell of this. i understand tattling on somebody is low and recognised stupid yet once you're severe approximately her commiting sucicide then you somewhat could be saving her existence. If she does not replace then you somewhat could call her mom and optimistically her mom will make her get some expert help. you do no longer could be friends with yet for the reason that thinking your asking this question i could say which you care approximately her and in case you do then you somewhat could help her each and every way you could.

  • 1 decade ago

    yes, what goes around comes around.

    and there's no point regretting of something that had been done. if you really feel uncomfortable with it, talk to her. if she still treats you as her friend, i'm sure she will listen to you. =) so don't be so bothered over it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You were being a true friend.

    like you said, friends help each other.

    This girl sound like a *****. remember what goes around comes around.

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