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A modern hijab poem?
A MODERN HIJAB POEM
What do you see when you look at me
Do you see someone limited, or someone free
All some people can do is just look and stare
Simply because they can't see my hair
Others think I am controlled and uneducated
They think that I am limited and un-liberated
They are so thankful that they are not me
Because they would like to remain 'free'
Well free isn't exactly the word I would've used
Describing women who are cheated on and abused
They think that I do not have opinions or voice
They think that being hooded isn't my choice
They think that the hood makes me look caged
That my husband or dad are totally outraged
All they can do is look at me in fear
And in my eye there is a tear
Not because I have been stared at or made fun of
But because people are ignoring the One up above
On the day of judgment they will be the fools
Because they were too ashamed to play by their own rules
Maybe the guys won't think I am a cutie
But at least I am filled with more inner beauty
See I have declined from being a guy's toy
Because I won't let myself be controlled by a boy
Real men are able to appreciate my mind
And aren't busy looking at my behind
Hooded girls are the ones really helping the Muslim cause
The role that we play definitely deserves applause
I will be recognized because I am smart and bright
And because some people are inspired by my sight
The smart ones are attracted by my tranquility
In the back of their mind they wish they were me
We have the strength to do what we think is right
Even if it means putting up a life long fight
You see we are not controlled by a mini skirt and tight shirt
We are given only respect, and never treated like dirt
So you see, we are the ones that are free and liberated
We are not the ones that are sexually terrorized and violated
We are the ones that are free and pure
We're free of STD's that have no cure
So when people ask you how you feel about the hood
Just sum it up by saying, 'Baby its all good'
What do you think?
15 Answers
- jeLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Salam, cute poem..To UZ Or UC whatever your ID is.. Do you know that the rate of STD's and AIDS is less in Islamic communities compared to others in the world?
As a Muslim women I am not oppressed... My husband is a great man who treats me as if I am on a pedestal...he does not cheat nor does he do drugs or drink. I do not have to worry about being beat.. I do not worry about his brothers or cousins being sexually inappropriate.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think if you want to wear an overcoat in 112 degree weather, that's your choice. Enjoy.
To equate the wearing of anything other than a hijab with being "being a guy's toy", "sexually terrorized and violated", impure, or infected with STDs is ridiculous.
To believe that wearing clothing that allows ones hair and/or face to be seen or that doesn't completely hide the beauty of the form that God gave you will so inflame men by merely being in your presence as to drive them to sin is, at best, pious and arrogant and borders on the absurd.
As for not being oppressed. Here is a recent news article regarding stepped up police action in Iraq over women in unislamic dress.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070716/wl_nm/iran_cra...
I ask, where is the choice? Is not the absence of such a choice the very definition of oppression?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Say, 'We have adopted the religion of Allah; and who is better than Allah in teaching religion, and him alone do we worship.'
Holy Quran
- NSLv 51 decade ago
i agree
i jus really dont care whether ppl think im oppressed or whtever if they see me in my hijab....it has been my choice n always will.
- uzLv 51 decade ago
you call it a poem, i call it a rant. Free isn't the word i will use to describe a woman tied up in a gown. but that's just me. It's just like telling me that some humans choose to crawl into a cage and lock themselves up and that frees them from rape and sexual abuse and cheating. Ok great.
One last comment, why do opponents of the hijab compare it with STDs, rape, assault etc? They are not mutually exclusive. People wearing the hijab have the same freq of STDs, rape etc, the difference is the communities they live in do not encourage disclosure infact, they could get punished for reporting it because the assumption is that they got raped because they weren't modest.
Frankly, i am tired of people defending the hijab. You don't see me defending my right to dress like i want to despite the fact that it gets condemned by the different religious groups. You know why? It's because i don't care what anyone else thinks. If you are fine with wearing the hijab, good for you but i am tired of hearing about it. Just wear it and go about your day
Jen3365: You don't worry about being assaulted/raped etc because you have decent people around you not because you are islamic. And yes, alot of disease statistics are inaccurate among islamic nations because accurate reporting is almost impossible. I don't agree with your assertion that STDs are low in islamic countries or that men cheat less or that rape is less encountered. Look at the stigma against women for speaking up or even admitting to rape. Some get punished for being raped. That is why it is not reported. You can believe whatever you want to believe unfortunately it wouldn't change the reality of islamic women everywhere
- Anonymous1 decade ago
nice poem, kind of reminds me of sami yusef's nasheed "free"
- curiosityLv 41 decade ago
really well written poem-thanks for sharing that
i agree with what is written