why do some married men think it's o.k. to have a girlfriend ?

Those type of men are self centered a$$holes.

Married men with girlfriends make it evident that many people do not think their lives through before making huge commitments in life. When people get married, they promise ofcourse to only love each other for the rest of time. Some people don't really analyze the meaning of marriage before they take on these vows. Anyone who truly understands what it means to commit and truly love someone will marry and not have an affair, cheat, or lie.

Who cares what a married man thinks. That is not marriage, because he cannot have another broad if he is married and therefore he needs a divorce.

That is just an idiot that doesn't know what marriage is. If he doesn't leave the spouse, but he's cheating on her, it's because he is using her for something. Something like a place to live, or because of money, or just because he doesn't feel like getting a divorce.

No matter what, it's not marriage.

He's looking for something that is missing in the marriage. It's not always sex either. Either way, they are pigs if they have girlfriends and married. I don't understand why you can't just work your problems out with the one you love and who is suppose to be your best friend.

They are probably thinking the same thing as a wife who likes a little something on the side.

I have asked myself that question about a million times. And I have come to the conclusion that it is because they are stupid, liars that dont know how to be faithful.

Because they are selfish and obviously not committed to the woman that they married.

Cuz the sex with their girlfriends is better than the sex with their wives.

i dont no why they think it's ok cause it not there going to get caught either way and either one of them isgoing to want them so it is not ok

because there looking for free sex they dont what to divorce there partner