If a girl doesn't call you - does that intrigue guys more?

Always let the guy make the first call. It makes him feel like he is pursuing you, and your more of a challenge. Some people will say different, but its not true.

If the guy is real shy, than you might have to call him.

I think it is a big pain to have to make that 1st few calls to a girl you just meet. The most painfully boring small talk. I hate the feeling out period. So, if a girl actually makes the 1st move and calls me that would be a relief. As far as how I would view that girl after her making the 1st call, I probably would think she is a little easy. But that would just be my early perception. That can change as you spend more time together so I dont believe it would be that big of an issue. I dont believe just that alone would discourage someone from pursuing the relationship. It would have to be a combination of other factors as well, such as; person is boring, too busy, too wild, has kids, foul mouth.

If a girl likes me call me and tell me. Please for the love of God no games.

If you are dealing with a guy or girl who plays (plays is the key word here) hard to get or uninterested then there is an immaturity factor that will lead to problems one way or another. If you had a nice time with him call him and tell him. If he has half a brain, he takes that as a compliment, appreciates your honesty and will want to go out with you again. You are a beautiful woman, not a board game, if guys don't appreciate you or make you feel like you are involved in game of cat and mouse then they are not mature enough for you and should be viewed as a waste of time.

Quit playing these silly games, they don't work. If you are interested in a girl, call her. If a girl is interested in a guy, call him. Really simple, people just need to start talking and not playing silly games, because if only one person knows the rules (whoever is playing the game) the other person is clueless and frustrated. Easy way to end a relationship quick!

nope that actually frustrate the guy more. I personally find it annoying. If you want to talk then call the other person. Some guys do not like to play games and if you show interest then they will reciprocate in kind. I would rather keep the communication going rather then wait for one and another to call. So thats my opinion, other guys might be different.

Yes it makes sense. Well, I mean I am familiar with what you're talking about, so it makes sense to me. However, logically it makes very little sense. But that's just the way it is.

You can call him sometimes and let him know you are interested. But if you give him too much too soon, he might not know how to handle it. Give him attention in small comfortable doses.

Yes, mi mom says guys love chasing the girl. When I went out with a guy once, he called me alot at first, then I started calling him alot. He stopped calling me, and eventually lost intrest. Just tell through the way u act u really like him, don't call him. But it's okay to call him every now and them. Guys don't like u 2 call them unless it's for something important, like a date or something.

that's certainly widespread that many women subconsciously mess with their hair while they are fascinated in somebody. a guy's thought technique is "oh stable, she's drawn to me, i will make a flow now!" it is in basic terms a slice of human nature

Pretty much everyone will agree. We all like to keep things "fresh" in a relationship.

When you talk, it should be memorable. When you have sex, it should be memorable. Once calling a girl becomes a routine for keeping her from nagging me to death, its no fun anymore.

The golden rule is: never ask "will you call me?"

No, It makes me think she doesn't like me. women need to call more and show THEY care instead of guys doing all the damn work. it all ends up being mixed signals. why not just send the right signals?