Is it wrong for a married woman to cyber?

Cheating is cheating, do not try to split hairs. Yes it is wrong

Very interesting long-time marriage issue. Though I'm not a qualified marriage counselor, I take this kind of marriage relationship fall-out very seriously. First, I'm sorry you have to endure this unfortunate experience in marriage. Assuming that you have exhausted all avenues to mend the rift between you and your spouse, and before we discuss about your cyber escapism rendezvous, perhaps you would like to revisit what is the main reason that your spouse has become a total ***. In most fall-out cases, there tends to be a core issue that is the culprit. Think hard. What's yours? Once the core issue isidentified, you might want to list the different options that you could use to address this issue. Then, work hard on the probable options to resolve it. Ultimately, you might solve your current issue or you might not, all depending on you and how your spouse perceive your mending effort. But the magic pill is to BELIEVE that it'll work for both of you throughout your reconciliation effort.

Now, your sexual rendezvous online question. On the surface, this extracurricular activity is exciting and looks pretty harmless. But, if you dive deep down, not only is this activity a pure disgust against many religious beliefs or human conscience (especially when you are a married person) but, with long-term obsession, it would also cause you nightmarish guilt later on in life when you regain your senses. Think hard: is it worth it? Which is better? To mend the rift with your spouse or to pretend that nothing happened, and live in a world of make-believe. Even if you are leaving your spouse for good, there are much more healthier pursuits you could partake in. Hope my opinion helps.

May you have an endearing and enduring relationship with your spouse and loved ones from now on. Best regards.

In my opinion, I do not think it is wrong. Some people with call it cheating and others will say it's not. You say you have no plans to meet anyone that you talk to. If ti makes you happy and fills a part of your life that you are missing than I say go ahead. It's your life and you have to do what makes you happy. You already know some people with agree and others will disagree. The bottom line is that it is your decision and you life to live. Make a choice and stand by your decision. Good luck.

yes it is sweetie, it doesn't matter if you are unhappy with your marriage. Do not do what others do just because, if you are planning to leave your husband why not do it now instead of doing it later. If you think that you can't save your marriage and the two of you already talk and tried,then its time to move on and have your own life. But do not do things that can be use against you, do the right things for once........

I just don't understand how you have an online sexual relationship.

Yep it's wrong. Get out of your marriage, then you can be an online ho all you want.

I don't have a problem with it email and im are just fantasy.

If you find some one with a similar imagination it can be alto of fun

no it is fine. A lot of good relationships start out that way and it is fun and a blast. He will be a lucky guy I am sure. Good luck

cheating is cheating...stop it now...and try to work out the marraige...tell your feelings to your husband...and give it another shot...please...better or worse, that was the vow...and you are breaking two...forsaking all others and breaking that you will be there for worse, too...=(...if you do leave your husband...wait until after the marraige to get involved in any way w/ anyone...

Cyber away baby!!!