rude coworker who stares at my boobs?

The only reason he keeps staring at you is because you respond to him when he does. I'm sure the guy is hoping you will ask him out to dinner or go on a date with him, BUT HE IS 18 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU. That's ridiculous! He is too old for you. You were 17 when he was 35. He will be 60 when you turn 42. I don't think you want to spend the rest of your life with a man that much older than you. Yes. I think you should avoid his advances, and he should look for someone closer to his age. He will stop staring at you as soon as you stop responding to his advances. I can assure you of that. He is not the CEO of a large corporation. He does not own a mansion and a yacht. He is simply a co-worker who keeps staring at you. Think about it. You say that you're a slim, attractive 25-year-old. I'm 35 and single. I would probably stare at you too. You seem to be certain that this guy has not stared at other women, but I think that's highly unlikely.

What the heck are you doing? If you offended by this guy, why the hell are you trying to start a "friendship" with him? From what i read, seems like you feel like you are the guilty party. Don't do that, screw him! Just do business to business thing, you don't need his approval or his friendship. If he gives you hard time and acts like an *** when you need something to get your job done, than report him immediately and say that he is making the working environment very uncomfortable for you. Don't take any chances. The more you wait and be nice about it, the more obnoxious and idiotic he will act towards you.

The instructor shouldn't have even let her begin the lab in that attire. Kicking her out and giving her a zero after the fact is retarded. I don't think it's rude to stare, given the circumstances. How often does a boob pop out of a shirt in a chem lab? You should have said something and helped her quickly pull her top over her breast! It obviously must have all happened very quickly so forget about it.

it sounds like you've got double-standrads issues (i.e: it was OK for YOU to tell HIM off when he tried to initiate contact, but the minute YOUR contact is not received so kindly you take it personally.) Maybe he was not in the right mood at the time, or maybe he just doesn't like you that way (he might like your body, but that's it).

If you feel he is as rude and obnoxious as you claim, then why are you wasting your time in initiating contact with him to begin with (which is something you 'never' do)?

The time that you "told him off" should have been the end of it, and it sounds like it probably was. Maybe he got the hint. But the minute you initiated contact, this was all on you now. Maybe he feels that YOU are obnoxious/weird and doesn't know how to make that clear with you without "telling you off"

Ok, so he stares at your boobs, and is weird but you're still giving him the 'time of day'?? Why even bother? He's a bit old for you too. I think if I were you I'd just avoid him and search out someone with a few better qualities.

You should act polite & professional & get back to doing your job. Understand that, even though you're on break, he may have things to do - just like you may be busy & not have time to chat when he's on break.

The staring problem should be discussed with your manager or HR department. It's not appropriate for a workplace.

I think you've asked this same question in ten different ways in the last week. We get it, you're young and cute and the old guy is checking you out. If it bothers you, look him in the eye and tell him that the next time you find his eyeballs in your cleavage you're going to HR. If it doesn't bother you, ask him out to lunch. It's not all that complicated.

I don't know what type of relationship you're looking for with this guy, and you're probably mystifying him as well. Guys are like that. And as for him checking out specific body parts, if you don't care for it, you should stay away from him.

As a female, I look at other women's boobs too and their bodies too. Ask yourself if you have been revealing your tempting parts. If so may be you have to wear the Muslim dress and cover yourself real well so that there is nothing much to be desired.