Husbands - Tell me 5 things you wish your wife WOULD do?

1. Rub MY feet for once, after a long day.

2. Realize that when I say something, I mean exactly that. There are no hidden meanings, no tricks, no insults. "I want pizza hut for dinner" IS NOT to be taken like "I hate your cooking, and would prefer to get fat than eat your food" (it just means I want a pizza!!)

3. Realize that we both have different ways of showing our love for eachother.

4. Listen to me for once, instead of just hearing what I am saying.

5. Stop trying to change me into a different man. You fell in love with me as I was, make me into someone else, and I will only be unhappy.

Could you clarify whether or not you are speaking of regular things, sexual things or other. Then I will edit my answer accordingly. I like the question though!

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I would like her to cook more instead of eating out so much.

Do stuff for me just to be nice and not get mad about it, IE take my dish to the sink if I get up to do something and forget it. Initiate love making and try something new in the bedroom. And be willing to go out more. Its not all about the bed room. Really its about the little things that a wife or husband might over look because they think "that's such a small thing its not something that is a big deal". That's what is needed to help married people keep an even healthy-er marriage in today's world I think. Just my opinion. And thanks for clarifying your question. Hope this helps.

1. Don't complain about the toilet seat being up, physics say it is easier to put a toilet seat down than up, you have the help of gravity.

2. Don't ask "loaded" questions or questions you really don't want the answer to.

3. Answer the question honestly and completely. He: "What's wrong, dear"? She: "Oh nothing". If the guy wasn't concerned, then he wouldn't ask.

4. When, in the inevitable argument, do NOT bring up things from the past. The past is not the topic, stick to the problem at hand.

5. Remember above all else, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Regardless of being male or female, we are all guilty of the 5 mentioned above. Don't sweat the small stuff, and 90 per cent of the things in life we get bent about IS small stuff.

1. discuss the problems and no nagging..

2. tell us nicely if we did something wrong..

3. ask what we want..we will do the same..

4. we need some space, sometimes..

5. a good massage in bed..

be very easy going chilled and relaxed

thats all i can come up with lol i guess i got a good woman eh ? (am not canadian by the way)

1) keep themselves more optimistic.

2) Initiate sex more often.

3) ask for help more often.

4) keep working towards personal goals.

5) understand better that us men are good, just not perfect.

here goes,

let me be with other women,

dont nag me,

always good food, served up to me two seconds before i actually realise im hungry myself

the remote control for the T.V

and finaly,, when the kids f uck up their yours ,and when win competitons and such their mine,,

now am i not all that you drempt a husband would be,,lol

You are really trying hard to be a good wife.

Assert yourself.

your journey to being a doormat shocks me.