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Anonymous asked in Beauty & StyleFashion & Accessories · 1 decade ago

My girlfriend likes me dressed in feminine attire. I find it exciting and wonder if I should do it more?

My girlfriend I are both 19, and we have played around with me wearing some of her clothes. I have started to wear panties almost all the time, and it is exciting. She has taken me shopping and has helped me buy feminine things to wear for her. A few months ago I finally wnet out with her all dressed up to dinner and a movie. It was wildly exciting, and we had a great time, if you know what I mean. Now, I am wondering if I should start wearing women's underwear all the time, and dress as a girl to go out with her on a regular basis. I find the idea of this more and more exciting and stimulating. I even went out and bought myself a corset, and have tried it on a couple times, but haven't let Cindy know I have it yet. Are there other guys out there that dress up like a girl for their girlfriends all the time? Why do you think that Cindy find this so exciting for us to do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    SOME women's clothes are very practical as you have found out but going all out is a bit much. When guys try on a pantie (that fits...usually Lycra with wide crotch) they will not change back to the typical non comfortable male undies so you aren't alone. Pantyhose is now unisex (Proof: http://www.activskin.com.au/Benefits.htm Check the benefits to become a believer and this is just one of many companies). Most likely Brad Pitt is correct in that a SKIRT will be the next fashionable item for guys since they are more practical than shorts in hot weather (And actually make more sense for guys than girls)! Kilts are becoming popular (http://travel.nytimes.com/2006/11/05/travel/05fora... but a Kilt IS A SKIRT by definition so just get a less expensive denim cargo mini in place of shorts and it will look fine. Girl jeans are a change from the horrible baggy jeans most guys wear thus are an alternative BUT I would draw the line there. Wearing high heels, bra, etc just doesn't make sense for a guy unless you are a bit screwed up. It is doubtful another girl friend would put up with it so be careful. It is exciting because is is out of what is perceived to be normal. It is most likely you are both looking for attention. And yes others also do this :-

  • 1 decade ago

    exploring sexual stereotypes is a common aspect of adolescence that begins with dress up games and then goes to the extremes. You have to remember that women and men's clothing are only described as such by culture - thus in some countries, guys might be wearing dresses, while in some time periods, such as the 1700s, guys might be wearing tights, and so on.

    women and men have different shaped bodies, so a lot of the clothing and sizes will not cross over correctly, and can be an inconvenience, if not downright cost ineffective.

    psychologically, there are common fantasies that women and men have, but the cultural connotations of empowerment, pampering, and desireability can lead to very dangerous games. These games easily escalate to things like bondage, public cross dressing, dietary changes, forced femminization, beastiality, and more horrid things -- for the exact same reason it is stimulating in the first place: it's something different.

    There are a lot of different ways to explore your intimate life, but ultimately, if it begins to redefine you, something is not right.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    It sounds exciting from my part...a little kinky and out of the ordinary but thats what makes it so exciting...hehe thats a pretty good idea maybe I'll try it out some day. I'll say you keep it up its definitely a way to spice things up for the relationship. And if you both enjoyed it then she will definitely find it exciting as well.

  • 1 decade ago

    do it if you want to. if it makes you feel sexy or better in some way then more power to you. there is nothing wrong with being a cross dresser. Countless men throughout history have done it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Real men don't wear women's clothes unless it's halloween. And even then they don't wear women's undergarments.

  • 1 decade ago

    Are you for real? I don't see no excitement in wearing women's panties.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Strange ? or merely peculiar ?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    WOW!!! thats scary!!!! i dont know of any guys that want to wear womans "clothing"!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    ummmm i dont think there is but if like to then go ahead

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    uhhh. for your own sanity i wouldn't keep on doing this sort of thing. it just doesn't sound right.......

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